Should i take depression pills??!
Question: i was w/ my bf 4 awhile & he got me preg. on purpose b/c he was leavin for da army[im 17 he is 19]i didnt get mad wen he told me dis b/c i luv him. so wen he got bak he moved in w/ me &while i was 8 mnths preg. he pushd me onto da bed &choked me i called da police[they didnt do crap]we broke up he moved bak to dallas 2 live w/ his 'rents b/c livin in my town reminded him of me 2much[he runs away from all his problems & his 'rents support everythin he does right or wrong]we got bak 2gether but he was still livin in dallas, i kno he luvd me but i couldnt trust him b/c he would talk to other girls so i broke up w/ him again dis time we didnt really talk but he did try to get bak w/ me once i said no & i had our baby but he never asked or saw him until he was 3 mnths. wen we met up i fell bak in luv w/ him & we talkd bout gettin 2gether he told me he luvd me & called me babe but ended up chosing his current gf and everytime i think bout him i cry[which is alot]should i take pills??
Answers: i was w/ my bf 4 awhile & he got me preg. on purpose b/c he was leavin for da army[im 17 he is 19]i didnt get mad wen he told me dis b/c i luv him. so wen he got bak he moved in w/ me &while i was 8 mnths preg. he pushd me onto da bed &choked me i called da police[they didnt do crap]we broke up he moved bak to dallas 2 live w/ his 'rents b/c livin in my town reminded him of me 2much[he runs away from all his problems & his 'rents support everythin he does right or wrong]we got bak 2gether but he was still livin in dallas, i kno he luvd me but i couldnt trust him b/c he would talk to other girls so i broke up w/ him again dis time we didnt really talk but he did try to get bak w/ me once i said no & i had our baby but he never asked or saw him until he was 3 mnths. wen we met up i fell bak in luv w/ him & we talkd bout gettin 2gether he told me he luvd me & called me babe but ended up chosing his current gf and everytime i think bout him i cry[which is alot]should i take pills??
Firstly, congratulations to you for thinking for yourself and having the foresight to come here in the first place and ask for our advice !! Good on ya................. :0) No you shouldn't take antidepressants !! Most emphatically not. particularly if you are breast feeding ........ we wouldn't want you & your beautifull little bubba to suffer any more grief, especially considering the side affects the chemicals in these drugs will have on you.
you should try to focus on increasing your levels of Serotonin (the natural feel good drugs that your body produces with the help of good ole clean food)
Have you been eating a balanced diet?? You need proper nourishment for your mind and body to be a happy and healthy person.
Try eating more foods rich in Tryptophan. Tryptophan is an essential amino acid that's used by the brain - along with B6, niacin (or niacinamide), and magesium (known as the antistress mineral) - to produce serotonin (the natural feel good drug), a neurotransmitter that carries messages between the brain and one of the body's biochemical mechanisms of sleep.
Tryptophan will help induce natural sleep; reduce pain sensitivity; act as a nondrug antidepressant; alleviate migraines; aid in reducing anxiety and tension and help relieve some symptoms of alcohol-related body-chemistry disorders and aid in control of alcoholism.
Best natural food sources of Tryptophan are; cottage cheese, milk, meat, fish, turkey, bananas, dried dates, peanuts and all protein rich foods.
Best natural food sources for magnesium are: leafy and green vegies, nuts and seeds, cold water fishes such as tuna, sardines, whiting and salmon.
Best natural food sources for niacin are: the white meat of chicken, whole wheat products, roasted peanuts, fish, eggs, avoacadoes, dates, figs and prunes.
Best natural food sources for vitamin B6 are: wheat germ, fish, soybeans, brewer's yeast, cantaloupe, cabbage, blackstgrap molasses, unmilled rice, eggs, oats, peanuts and walnuts.
Also, by taking a good quality multi B complex supplement including all the B's ie: B1, B2, B3, B5, B6 and B12 you will support your body in dealing with the everyday stresses life throws at us. ie: new job, new home, school studies ...... the B complex of vitamins is essential for healthy digestive, neural and immune systsem functioning.
Really importantly, make sure you hydrate your system on a daily basis with plenty of fresh filtered water as the happiest and healthiest body will always be the most hydrated one.
Try to cut back on the things that will rob you of your precious B complex of vitamins too ie: caffeine, sodas and soft drinks, alcohol are all brilliant B complex thieves ......... things such as the antiobiotics, antidepressants, laxatives, aspirin, diuretics will all also do a great job of robbing you of your B's.
I'm so sorry all this has happened to you and your little baby but you do sound as though you have enough maturity to deal with the end result of all this grief responsibly and i reckon that you're more than likely a great mother and a very strong and kind person ............... i sincerely do wish you all the very best of health and vitality buddy?
Take care of you?
CHEERS
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Next time write your question so people who read english above grade 2 can understand it.
No, you don't need pills. you are going through a hard time. There is a reason why this guy came in to your life. He is obviously an a**hole, but he gave you a beautiful baby. Use that as inspiration to get on with your life and be a good supportive mother. Other men will come along and you deserve someone who will show you their love not someone who will choke you and play games with you. Good luck everything will be okay in time, you are strong enough to get through these hardships!
Try taking Bcomplex, B6 and sublingual B12 in the morning and
magnesium and D3 at bedtime for awhile and see if that helps any.
young lady, please don't take pills! I am a 40 year old engaged Christian homeless hippie living in Seattle. I would recommend smoking some natural medication rather than eating prescription anti-depressant medz. Many mental health medications are addictive, and some produce side effects that can be worse than the thing they are intended 2 treat. Much better 4 U and the baby if U are still nursing!!
Best of luck 2 the both of U!
Timothy
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Take the pills, get an abortion in the future, and move out of state.
i wouldnt take anything without talking to a docter. and if your are breastfeeding it would not be a good idea. just know that you and your baby deserve the very best. ask yourself, is he really the best i can get for me and my son? if your answer is no then you are just attatched. its normal and ok. you get over it. you are mostly just upset because you are so so very young and these things are not easy at your age. but you are a very mature and responsible young lady for growing up and being a mom. good luck and god bless you hon. xx
There is too much inconsistency in run on sentences, incomplete thoughts and all the misspelled words that I believe this story by so - called "Roxy" is a set-up or put on; as a hoax. The implication of a simpleton of this nature wouldn't be able to even know how to conceive a child.
Third graders can write a better story with a better plot then this. I sure hope I'm right because if true, Roxy, you need more help then your b/f can give you and you better pray the Good Lord has the time to watch over you............ Amen.
that guy needs to learn to be a man, sick of people like that
Don't take antidepressants. Look for family and friend support. Now you have to take care your child. That is your priority. Show this guy that the only thing you want from him is the child support.
And you try to go on with your life. Sometimes, time heals the pain.
Good luck