Breast implant!?!
Question: Breast implant!!?
I thinking about getting Breast implants!. I have been thinking about them for several years now!. My fit, and because I work so much I have no boobs!. My husband has known I wanted an enhancement for over 7 years, but now he is opposed because now he knows I have a date set!. He is not going to be by my side he says!. I hate my body and he knows it!. I feel like he is just being jealous!. He says he doesn't want any more attention drawn to me!. I think he is being ridiculas!. I'm doing this for me, but I want someone on my side!. Should I just go through with it anyway on my own!?Www@Answer-Health@Com
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I think I agree with Mandy, but while you are talking to him try to reassure him that you aren't going to look anything like those women one sees on tv whose have "obviously" had breast implants, whose breast bone and ribs show and have breasts the size of large cantaloupes!. Perhaps it would help to show him some "before and after" pictures, if you don't already have some, I'm sure you could get some from your surgeon's office!.
Or you could purchase a padded bra in the new expected size, wear it under a shirt, then he could see for himself exactly what to expect!.
I think he will give in, but just in case he doesn't here is something to think about!. By threatening not to be there for you, he is trying to manipulate you to get exactly what he wants!.!.!.for you to not have it done, after all you are considering it!.!.!.!.!.!., aren't you!? And what is even worse is that he's justifying his behavior by saying he doesn't want your getting more attention(I assume he means, from other men)!. Does he manipulate you in other ways!?
Only you know how badly you have wanted this done for years, imagine regretting just as badly not having it done when you had the opportunity, perhaps for the rest of your life!. So I say, Go for it!
Best wishes to you, whatever you decide!Www@Answer-Health@Com
Or you could purchase a padded bra in the new expected size, wear it under a shirt, then he could see for himself exactly what to expect!.
I think he will give in, but just in case he doesn't here is something to think about!. By threatening not to be there for you, he is trying to manipulate you to get exactly what he wants!.!.!.for you to not have it done, after all you are considering it!.!.!.!.!.!., aren't you!? And what is even worse is that he's justifying his behavior by saying he doesn't want your getting more attention(I assume he means, from other men)!. Does he manipulate you in other ways!?
Only you know how badly you have wanted this done for years, imagine regretting just as badly not having it done when you had the opportunity, perhaps for the rest of your life!. So I say, Go for it!
Best wishes to you, whatever you decide!Www@Answer-Health@Com
Yes, get them done!. send us a pic!Www@Answer-Health@Com
ok ill tell you staright dont because you well regret it when your older but it might look nice when your young but when your old love they sag!.!.!.!.!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Always do it for yourself, I did and it was the best thing I have done for myself!.!. My husband was always wishy washy on the whole idea but was wonderful after the fact!! If you want them get them!!Www@Answer-Health@Com
Well, what's more important: Bigger breasts or your husband!?
The choice is yours!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
The choice is yours!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Do it for yourself honey!. I once was made fun of too!. My friends called me Duracell because I had Triple AAA's!. But let me tell you, my double D's make there little B's look like earthworms!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
f u really want to~
exercise nd eating papaya will do~haha!Www@Answer-Health@Com
exercise nd eating papaya will do~haha!Www@Answer-Health@Com
if u feel that u need them, go ahead!.
why else would they have invent plastic surgery!?Www@Answer-Health@Com
why else would they have invent plastic surgery!?Www@Answer-Health@Com
Talk to your husband about it!. Tell him that this really means alot to you and it is not going to change your personality, it will just make you more happy and feel better!. Tell him that you really want him by your side because you love him!. Tell him that you would do the same for him if he needed you by his side no matter what!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
You should get them if that would make you happy!. I know somebody who got theirs because their body was not in proportion!. They hated buying one size for pants and another for tops!. It definitely wasn't for attention from guys!. If you do get them try and get them to look the most natural they can!. You don't want to look like a stripper that's for sure!. Maybe then your husband will be less threaten and be more approving!.
PS- My friend got hers over 10 years ago and two babies later and they don't sag!. So that person who said they sag doesn't know what they are talking about!. That's the beauty about implants!. You'll be 90 with beautiful breast!. Wow, I think I might have to get them!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
PS- My friend got hers over 10 years ago and two babies later and they don't sag!. So that person who said they sag doesn't know what they are talking about!. That's the beauty about implants!. You'll be 90 with beautiful breast!. Wow, I think I might have to get them!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Best to avoid any foreign body implants unless medically advised!. Breast implants have created problems for some people who have used them for cosmetic enhancement!.
Rely on your inner beauty!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Rely on your inner beauty!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
depends on how bad you want them!.Yes if it is for self esteem!.Maybe as jealous and small your hubby is being in this decision you could offer to spring for a penis enlargement for him!.He worries about more attention for you,what is he thinking about!?You or his ego as a guy!.My sweetie got the twins years ago and she loves em so do I and most people admire them for whatever reasons!.They make her happy so I am delighted!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
There is nothing sexier than self-confidence!. I had mine done at 37!. I'm still happy about it 5 years later!.
I have heard that many divorces happen after breast implants!. If you hubby has heard the same thing, then that might be the source of his insecurities!. Let him know that you appreciate his concern, but that you would really love to have his support, emotionally and physically in the recovery room!. Remind him that this is a way for you to feel better about yourself, just like you purchase make-up and pretty/sexy clothes, waxing, etc!. Just be loving and reassure him that your relationship and marriage is safe and that HE is the one you love!. Then, let him share in your joy and excitement in trying on all your clothes and seeing how they now fit better!. And take him along shopping with you, since he will get the added benefits!. The more you reassure him of your love, the better it will be for the both of you!.
On the other hand, I personally know 4 women who immediately got pregnant AFTER surgery! lolWww@Answer-Health@Com
I have heard that many divorces happen after breast implants!. If you hubby has heard the same thing, then that might be the source of his insecurities!. Let him know that you appreciate his concern, but that you would really love to have his support, emotionally and physically in the recovery room!. Remind him that this is a way for you to feel better about yourself, just like you purchase make-up and pretty/sexy clothes, waxing, etc!. Just be loving and reassure him that your relationship and marriage is safe and that HE is the one you love!. Then, let him share in your joy and excitement in trying on all your clothes and seeing how they now fit better!. And take him along shopping with you, since he will get the added benefits!. The more you reassure him of your love, the better it will be for the both of you!.
On the other hand, I personally know 4 women who immediately got pregnant AFTER surgery! lolWww@Answer-Health@Com