So my husband smokes weed...?!


Question: So my husband smokes weed!.!.!.!?
I hate it!. Ive always hated it!. He keeps saying he quits and then a couple weeks later he's right back to it!. We have 2 young girls!. I'm sick of it!. I'm tired of being lied to, tired of hoping I dont have to see that ugly *** look on his face when he's high every time he comes through the door!. Tired of the whole subject matter!. What should I do!? I'm so sick of it that I dont even want to talk about it to explain my question!Www@Answer-Health@Com


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If you've always hated it, why did you have children with him!? He says he quits because he feels pressured into it by you!. From what you say, he has no real interest in stopping, and nothing you say to him is going to change that!. Confronting him with an ultimatum (either he stops or you leave) is sort of emotional blackmail, and is just going to lead to more lying and secretive behavior!. Either he will stop of his own volition, or he won't stop at all!.

So, you have two options!. Learn to put up with it, or leave!. If you are this unhappy with him and his habits, I don't see a viable option except the last!. Staying in an unhappy marriage "for the kids" is the worst possible thing you can do!.

If he continues (and he will, based on your post), your daughters will eventually be exposed to him while he's high and know what's going on!. Kids with parents that smoke weed tend to start at a younger age!. If you don't want this for your daughters, you have to do something about it!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

you married him and had kids with him!.
we have always been told , you cannot change the man!.

Would you rather have a pot head or an alcoholic!?

would you rather he drink!? Be a falling down drunk in front of the kids!.
After smoking pot your husband has a happy dumb look on his face generallay smiling!.!.!.isn't that better than a falling down drunk!.

If its a big deal with you tell him to do it outside away from the house!.

Maybe he does it to handle you bitchi-g!.
Sometimes this is how he handles the stress of taking care of a wife and kids in the day and age!.

Be glad you have a husband!.!.!.
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I agree with rumstem!. Aslong as its not hurting anyone why do you care!. IF it is a problem tell him to atleast limit it to like once or twice a week!. Theres nothing wrong with smoking some weed!. And I dont think you would go so low as to call the cops on him if hes your husband, yes MABY if he was spending all your familys money but thats just rediculous!.

- Talk to him about it!. Tell him how you feel!?!?!?
Maby he has reasons for doing it!? (pain relief)

Good luck with your situation!.

i also highly agree with peek thx god for all the blessings!. its way better then alcohol, or second hand smoke from tobacco, or any hard drug!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Your husband is a grown man and has the right to smoke as much weed as he wants without your nagging as long as it isn't interfering with his daily life (can't hold down a job, never sees his family, etc!.!.)Www@Answer-Health@Com

I would show myself and my kids more self respect and leave that pot head!. With so many good men out there to be stressing over a sorry *** pothead is just to sad for me!. you need to leave lady! Seriously!Www@Answer-Health@Com

confront him again when he isn't high
and threaten to leave him, if you mean
it or not it may whip him into shape
if he doesnt change, it means he doesn't care srry
hope things work out between you twoWww@Answer-Health@Com

call the cops on him lol its illigal and so is possetion of it!.!.when he gets his *** kicked a couple times in jail maybe hell learn to quit!Www@Answer-Health@Com

time to pack up and leave!. There is no point in nagging!. He has well and truly made his decision and it does not include you or his daughters so good luck and don't delay !Www@Answer-Health@Com

WOW thats fu!. !.ked up!. Tell him to stop for the kids!. Www@Answer-Health@Com





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