How can I get past this low point in my life?!
Question: How can I get past this low point in my life!?
I'm 21 and never been in a relationship, nor desire to be in one!. I'm probably asexual!. I think society puts way too much emphasis on relationships and finding that special someone!. Why can't people just be happy with themselves!? People think that being in a relationship will automatically make them happy and solve all their problems!. Why is there obsessive interest over relationships!?
I'm not really that close to anyone!. I only have one or two friends!. It's hard for me to get close to people in general!.!.!.kind of because I don't see why people would want to hang out with me!. So I guess in some ways, I have low-self esteem!. I don't think I've ever emotionally opened up to another human being!.!.
My question is, am I missing out on what life is all about!?
Part of be doesn't believe in love and thinks it's just a silly human emotion!. However, that means, every other human emotion is silly as well!. So I do realize my thinking is slightly skewed!. I also realize that just because I don't believe in love, doesn't mean it's not valid!.
I also realize that part of my inability to love probably comes from the inability to love myself!. However, it's not like I hate myself either!. I do think I have some good qualities, but overall, I'm just don't really care!.
I realize that when I get out of college, I'm just going to have a career and ultimately die!. Work work work!.!.and then death!.
I don't have a passion for anything really!.!.yeah I have a lot of diverse interests like psychology and economics, but nothing I really want to do!. Part of me wants to find a passion, and part of me could care less!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
I'm not really that close to anyone!. I only have one or two friends!. It's hard for me to get close to people in general!.!.!.kind of because I don't see why people would want to hang out with me!. So I guess in some ways, I have low-self esteem!. I don't think I've ever emotionally opened up to another human being!.!.
My question is, am I missing out on what life is all about!?
Part of be doesn't believe in love and thinks it's just a silly human emotion!. However, that means, every other human emotion is silly as well!. So I do realize my thinking is slightly skewed!. I also realize that just because I don't believe in love, doesn't mean it's not valid!.
I also realize that part of my inability to love probably comes from the inability to love myself!. However, it's not like I hate myself either!. I do think I have some good qualities, but overall, I'm just don't really care!.
I realize that when I get out of college, I'm just going to have a career and ultimately die!. Work work work!.!.and then death!.
I don't have a passion for anything really!.!.yeah I have a lot of diverse interests like psychology and economics, but nothing I really want to do!. Part of me wants to find a passion, and part of me could care less!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Answers:
Hm, are you a gemini!? haha, you seem very split on everything in life!. Then again so am I, I can see almost every side to a situation but you can never completely agree with one!. You don't have any favorites and that is why if you even tried to pursue one of your passions you would stop because you were bored with it, and move on!. You, already knowing this will happen, decide not to even try!. Pursuing any of these activities is life!. thats what your missing out on!. not love at the moment, but if you put yourself into certain situations, you may find love, you may find yourself doing something you really enjoy!. you may not 'really want to do' anything right now, but if you try something and give it chance, you may find you actually DO want to do it!.
Your 21, so am I, maybe take a semester abroad or if you're graduating soon, travel, go see the world, go somewhere you've never been, even if it's only for the weekend!. Nothing exciting is going to happen to you if you don't put yourself out into the world and let it happen!.
Life is so much more than love, money, working!. It's a journey, an experience and you should find those moments and cherish them!.
GO find yourself, find what you're all about, then you may be able to open up to another human being and share your life intimately!.!.!. if thats what you ultimately want to do, or share it with many!.!.!.!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Your 21, so am I, maybe take a semester abroad or if you're graduating soon, travel, go see the world, go somewhere you've never been, even if it's only for the weekend!. Nothing exciting is going to happen to you if you don't put yourself out into the world and let it happen!.
Life is so much more than love, money, working!. It's a journey, an experience and you should find those moments and cherish them!.
GO find yourself, find what you're all about, then you may be able to open up to another human being and share your life intimately!.!.!. if thats what you ultimately want to do, or share it with many!.!.!.!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
I had a difficult part of my life and finding myself is what got me through :)Www@Answer-Health@Com