Question:
Why do people forget me/ ignore me or move on from me so easily?
I'm at a weird place in my life right now where I just feel lonely. I see other women my age (22) making connections with people (mainly men) that I feel I always get looked over, yes I'm fat and I am changing that, but I feel like I don't have enough personality to even hold a man or be with anyone and I see other girls who I feel I am more interesting than more outgoing, that I have more in common with the guy but no matter what I could never be seen like that to these guys, but every other day its a new one for them they are talking to all theses new guys. I feel so gross all the time and I have had a boy to hug, kiss and fool around with, but still at this stage in my life I have never had a real boyfriend, and I feel like I should have had at least ONE. The other thing is people give out their phone numbers when I could be chilling with everyone in a group but no one ever ask for mine because I guess they have no reason to call or text me but I feel so forgettable. I have one friend who doesn't even include me in her activities anymore she has moved on and i'm ok with that but I'm not ok with being so replaceable because I feel better than that. I had one boy I ask to be my bf and he said he would until he found something better , NO but I feel like that i'm ok until something better comes along then they just forget me and think i'm tough i'm not tough i'm a girl and I feel guys forget that and I'd like to be treated as one.
Answers:
Best Answer - Chosen by Voters
Stop worrying about what other people think! Surround yourself with people that you feel comfortable around, and maybe with some people that you could learn something from.
I think you need to concentrate on who YOU are. Not what your friends think of you...
Then you would have much more understanding about who you are, and aren't, compatible with.
Stop feeling sorry for yourself, get up, and live your life.
You are the one who decides what other people think about you.
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I know how you can change all that. Start looking for people who are lonely and befriend them. Don`t go after the popular ones. They don`t need you as a friend. I used to be very shy, but decided to look out for people with needs when I was still a teenager, and you know what? I became very popular, because when people are in need they look for someone who is willing to lend a listening ear. I ended up having more friends, including boyfriends than I needed. I am now 75 years old, and I still look out for lonely people and try to make them popular. And I still have lots of friends.