How do i cure my grief that won't go away?!
Question: How do i cure my grief that won't go away?
I have a few close friends, but i rarely see them - we talk on the phone or on facebook. I don't go 'anywhere'..except for appointments and errands. I'm not interested in anything that involves socializing and the like. I bury my head in a book, sing, listen to music, dance, stretch, and answer people's questions on yahoo answers because it brings me warm satisfaction on the inside.
The point is i don't want to feel all this grief anymore, and the people i talked with so far hasn't gotten anywhere. I was mainly told: medication. You want to know what i really wanted to say to them? I wanted to tell them to go shove it up their f***ing a** and they're pushing it on us everytime we take the initiative to better ourselves. What i did say to them was that i felt medication wasn't the right answer, there has to be other options, we can't always rely on them, and i just plain don't want to go that route.
I have hatred for life in general, all this affection buried in me wants release, i don't have faith, my relationship with my mom is dicey, i hardly see the guy i'm in love with, i have the "i don't care" attitude towards everything - i do say it often, and i'm losing my appetite.
So what do i really need? If you can think of something that could work....perhaps on a spiritual level, to. Long as it doesn't involve alcohol, drugs, smoking, sex, masterbating, etc because these i can just tell are not the way to go.
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It sounds like you're an angry person. Mean too. There's no shame in taking medication so you don't have to feel bad everyday. When you're depressed you're chemically imbalanced in the brain and no amount of church will undo it. The people who said medication were just trying to help you. If you don't want help, don't ask a question. Medication might be the best thing that ever happens to you. But you'll never know because you're too concerned with telling people to shove the advice that you asked for up their ***.
Anyway, now that I'm done with my rant. Praying wont fix your problem. Going to church and donating your time may help you feel better though. Donating your time to an organization like your local pound pound is a good idea too. Everyone says that makes them feel better.
Working out is a good idea. It naturally releases endorphins.
I wont say sex will make anything better, because it does come with its consequences, but masturbating actually relieves stress. Which could always help too. Don't completely block out everything before you actually take the time to know whats up behind it.
Alochol, smoking, and most illegal drugs are only quick fixes and only create depression and problems in the long run. So I don't think anyone would recommend those anyway.
I agree with the last paragraph entirely, I think you need Jesus in your life to fill in what is missing.
God made us to reach out for Him , so when we dont do this we feel the emptiness that you are experiencing and this is when a lot of people seek satisfaction in the activities mentioned in your last paragraph
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