My parents might get a divorce?!
Question: I'm happy about it 2. What is wrong with me? Most people are sad about it. I guess I'm happy because I don't have to deal with their fighting anymore. It is wrong that I'm happy about it?
Answers: I'm happy about it 2. What is wrong with me? Most people are sad about it. I guess I'm happy because I don't have to deal with their fighting anymore. It is wrong that I'm happy about it?
There is nothing wrong with that at all. I know sometimes I so wish my mom would just leave my dad b/c she can do so much better. U love ur parents and want them 2 be happy. U can see that they are not happy together. BTW I know what u mean about being tired of the fighting.
no its not wrong. it just goes to show how much they are fighting and how bad it really is for them and the kids.
Naaah. They'll be happy and you are happy for them and for yourself. Nothing wrong with being happy now is there?
No, it is not wrong that you are happy that a difficult situation is ending. There is nothing harder on children than parents fighting physically or verbally. Your parents will be better off apart and so will you even though divorce can be hard of everyone.
Hello, i was 6 when my parents got a divorce. And we was happy and we threw a party because my dad left. Later they will talk bad about each other to you. They will want you to choose them and not the other parent. It was difficult at the end! But I love both of my parents and I am now 21. Hope this helps you. Happy Holidays and Good Luck
It is okay to be happy about the divorce, and understandable given the amount of tension that is probably going on in your house. It may also be normal for you to have some unhappy feelings about the divorce later on, and that too is understandable. If this is the case, please talk to a trusted friend, teacher, or counselor. Divorce can be hard for all involved, and it helps to be able talk about it.
It's not wrong to be happy, but you might not be seeing the big picture. Divorce can solve some problems between parents, but it usually creates others. Women are usually worse off financially. Both parents feel a sense of of failure. Men lose the stability of marriage.
I'm not saying this to make you feel bad -- I'm just telling you to take care of yourself. If you have to make choices, don't ask "What's best for Mom or Dad?" Ask "What's best for me?"
No, there is nothing wrong about being happy about it. Sometimes, it is better for a couple to get divorced than live together, constantly fight, and be unhappy which could cause their children to be unhappy too.
No, it's not wrong. I'm also happy my parents got a divorce. :]
That is completely normal! Put somebody else in your shoes. Would they feel the same way? You will probably feel sad later and wish that they could work it out, but let yourself feel the way you want to. I wish you good luck, and remember that there are people always out there to help you if you look for them.
First, you are not broken. If you parents get a divorce,it's not your fault. Adults some times make bad choices. Maybe things will be better if the are not fighting all the time.
Just love them both, they are hurting and angry but not at you. Try to be good and not cause trouble.
You are ok, don't feel bad about feeling good that apart they are not fighting.
You did not cause this & they are going to get through this