I dont get it!!?!


Question: I try my hardest at work and in my personal life and all it gets me is screwed over, yelled at, and betrayed.
Im so sick of trying to make my life worthwhile, What do you do when you feel like getting your life over with yourself?


Answers: I try my hardest at work and in my personal life and all it gets me is screwed over, yelled at, and betrayed.
Im so sick of trying to make my life worthwhile, What do you do when you feel like getting your life over with yourself?

I know exactly what you mean - I have had a HORRID year (worst on record) and feel much the same at times....

All you can really do is keep on going as things ALWAYS improve... I know thats hard to hear, and I myself get annoyed when ppl say this to me, but in the end they are right - things will improve.....you may not see this right now, but things will get better eventually.

You keep going. It's honestly the only way. It gets better after a while. Try prayer.

Maybe stop trying so hard and just let things flow. Sometimes when I try hardest to do something I think is really great for someone, it seems to backfire and I just wish I had left things alone and gone on about my business.
I have a sign that has a child's painting of a dogs face. It says, "Sometimes I just want to pee on the whole wide world". That about sums up how it seems sometimes.

never ever be ashamed to take it to the lord in prayer.

Well, this happens throughout life....not all aspects of our lives are perfect at the same time. More often than not, it all goes **** up at once! Prioritise and rationalise. What is bugging you most...if you had a squeaky door, you oil it...if you just leave it, it drives you nuts....so, put your cv about and get looking at new jobs in the new year....see if that helps with the personal life....if it doesn't then sort that out afterwards....write down what is bugging you and then put the solutions in another column - when you start to see resolution you start to get hope back and then curiosity about the future returns and life starts to tick again....until the next sh.tty episode....

It sounds like you're spending time with the wrong kind of people. It is common for us to tolerate some verbal/emotional abuse from "well-meaning" friends and family at weak times in our lives.

The key is to recognize it and move on quickly. Research some of your favorite interests such as art, or music. Take a class doing something creative and surround yourself with people who are friendly and supportive.

Look around at other job opportunities. Rediscover yourself!

Just say no to negative vibes from others.

Good Luck! :)

Look for a new job.

IF you are feeling suicidal, Go to the ER and be evaluated. They can help you.

That's life.. There's always rough and hard times we have to face... It's a challenge that all of us have to live with everyday and we have to be strong enough to withstand those obstacles...

DONT GET YOUR LIFE OVER WITH! Please dont!

I already went through where your going through.. That point in life where you feel worthless and just want to die.. Well youre not worthless.. Your worth it just like everyone else in this world.. You have to be strong in these times of life... Dont let the bad times feed on your very soul.. You should be the one feeding on them! see your mistakes as lessons, NOT disasters..

I promise it will get better.. just stay POSITIVE.. it always works.. The law of the universe is "Like attracts Like" which means if you think positive stuff, positive things will come to you.. It also works that way of you think too much of negative things.. So stay positive and things will go smoothly..

Stay positive, surround yourself with good people and your loved ones, focus on what you WANT not what you DONT WANT.. and most especially, PRAY...

Dont tell God you have a big problem; Tell your problem you have a big God! hehe ^^

I'll be praying and hoping for the very best!!

Good luck with everything!!

KEEP HOLDING ON!!

Sincerely,
Queen Of Hearts =)





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