Im confused and have come close..?!
Question: i met my bf and i love him hes great and he know that i love him.
but today i got a phone call saying that he told another girl he really liked her.
i feel really SAD.and to make it worse the girl he might like is my cousin!
people also tell me that he has a thing for my best friend.
and i put this in metal health because i have very low self esteeme and he knows that.
i also am a manic depressive and i can already feel it coming on.
so i guess im asking just what to do??
Answers: i met my bf and i love him hes great and he know that i love him.
but today i got a phone call saying that he told another girl he really liked her.
i feel really SAD.and to make it worse the girl he might like is my cousin!
people also tell me that he has a thing for my best friend.
and i put this in metal health because i have very low self esteeme and he knows that.
i also am a manic depressive and i can already feel it coming on.
so i guess im asking just what to do??
if you are medically diagnosed with manic depression, then you have a prescription and I know that this is the last thing you wanna hear, but you need to take your meds. thats about the only thing you can do right now to stop this from coming on. I know you most likely dont want to...but you have sense enough to ask for help and this is the most helpful thing I know of......
leave him..
he's only bringing you down.
who cares, your to young to worry about this stuff.
Eat some pie and top it with lots of cool wip and cream cheese.
Just be happy being yourself.. If your boyfriend doesn't love you for who you are then he doesn't deserve to be with you.
Maybe you should question the source that you got this information from, before getting down on yourself and mad at your bf
Dump him, he's young and he's going to change his mind every week on who he likes and wants. You don't need the trouble....and if you have low self esteem as you say you do, you'll only become needy and dependent on guys to validate your feelings for yourself, You need to be alone and have fun with your girlfriends and not worry about troublesome boys.
Call him and ask him if he really said what you have been told.
Are you taking medication for your bi-polar? If you are not in therapy, it would be a good idea. There are a lot of disappointments in life. Therapy can help you learn how to deal with them.
Consult your psychiatrist immediately. Some people can't deal with other people's mental health problems. He seems to be one of them. You'll find someone who is more nurturing and understanding of your feelings. No need to deal with that.
He's a player, leave him before he leaves you! Thats what you should do cause it really sound like he is using you for one reason. And you know what that is. So Just get rid of him and focus on yourself cause in that mood no one needs to worry about someone else ecspecially if they want other people. Well I hope you get to feeling better and find someone better that is perfect for you! Good luck girl!
ask him straight up if all these accusations are true. it could just be people hating on u guys because they are jealous or ur relationship. how is he acting? is he becoming distant with u. if he is showing love, then they are probably lying.
you are make relation with man with out marriage it an adultery so all consequences must be accepted from you
why sad now you should be sad first time he touched you
Don't throw your dreams and aspirations away just for a boy. This is what some puberty-driven boys do at this age. You're too young to get tangled up in his web. Don't get bent out of shape and thinking you're a mad woman just because of him. Because you're not. You're a normal girl who's getting her heart broken, but she's gonna get over it because there is a wonderful and fulfilling life ahead of her. And even though her heart is hurting right now, she's gonna be strong and move on with her own life.
Trust me sweetie, I've seen this too many times where a girl gets her heart broken by some jerk and she loses grasp of her dreams and goals. Then when reality finally hits her, she's wondering where her life has gone and what she's been doing this whole time.
Be confident! He doesn't control your emotions. Only you have the power to control your mind and actions. Keep strong and stay positive!
are you on medication for your depression? i think its important to talk about how you're feeling with friends, family, or a professional if you feel these depressive spells are intense. he's not worth you doing anything dangerous over if he cant appreciate you. what makes you feel good about yourself? when do you feel sexiest? i think you should remember those moments and how you got there and try to fit them into your daily schedule. i feel sexiest after i work out so i try to workout everyday. find something that makes you feel good about yourself. also stay close to family and friends. they love and appreciate you for who you are and they will help you not to forget how great you are and what great things you deserve. in a little while you wont even remember this kid, much less how sad you feel right now. some day you will find someone who truly appreciates all your great qualities and it will be great. if this isnt the guy, then just move on. no biggie. good luck!
It is so much better to dump a guy who stresses you out, than to get dumped.
Get rid of this fruitcake immediately and ask out a cute guy. Don't even question your esteem. Just ask a cute guy and roll with it. I'm sure there's plenty of guys who'll be flattered, if you ask.
Go for it, girl!
Hi, I'm Charles yahoo. I say you should stop worrying and let something happen if its going to happen. That's usually my problem.