I'm not sure. But I think my dad was up to something?!
Question: Well im 23 now, but these weird thoughts sometimes go through my mind.
My mom was away on business when I was 3-5, and I was getting out of the bath, my mom would always dry me with a towel. This time my dad had to do that job, but it seemed like he touched me down there for like 3 seconds with the towel.
When I was 11, 12, I remeber the computer having a virus, and it was porn with daugther-dad types of porn, and it was weird to hug him at that age, dont know why.
In my teens, my dad walked on me in my bra one time, sometimes he would grab my waist jokingly.
Other than that nothing else happened, because I moved away, far away at 18. My parents support me and stuff, but I found these acts weird, are they normal, am i overeacting?
Answers: Well im 23 now, but these weird thoughts sometimes go through my mind.
My mom was away on business when I was 3-5, and I was getting out of the bath, my mom would always dry me with a towel. This time my dad had to do that job, but it seemed like he touched me down there for like 3 seconds with the towel.
When I was 11, 12, I remeber the computer having a virus, and it was porn with daugther-dad types of porn, and it was weird to hug him at that age, dont know why.
In my teens, my dad walked on me in my bra one time, sometimes he would grab my waist jokingly.
Other than that nothing else happened, because I moved away, far away at 18. My parents support me and stuff, but I found these acts weird, are they normal, am i overeacting?
I have some of the same feelings about my dad. I thought maybe more actually happened but I blocked it. Now, after many years, I've come to believe that nothing more happened but I sensed that he had more on his mind.
Some of my intuitions proved true because when he was older he hit on my daughter's 13 year old friend and I later found out my 12 year old cousin.
Perhaps you are like me, intuitive and sensed what was on his mind even tho he didn't fully act on his desires?
My mom was away a lot too. I kind of blame her as much as my dad. I think she knew he was like that and did nothing to protect me. I have no way to prove it because both are deceased. I just think she probably had some idea that he might not be safe with young girls. It was her responsibility to protect me.
Too be honest, I think you had a bad experience with your father and you still remember it...I'm sorry to hear that...You should let these feelings come out and get some help with this. Your not over acting; PTSD is what you are facing; Post-Traumatic Stress Depression.
it's ok to think it is weird, and ur not overeacting. yea he prbly was up 2 sumthin
you are overeacting bigtime. I know of girls that really were abused by their dads or other male relatives, and what you described was NOTHING by compairison. I know plenty of people that would trade places with you if you think that was abuse.
Diapered_Cherub you should be ashamed of yourself! yes people have more tramatic situations but you cant compare them! there is no scale of 1-10 on how badly you were molested! I dont think you are overreacting, I felt like this from my dad too, but he never did anything. But when he was drunk i wasnt sure what he would do. It got so bad I used to pee in bottles in my room so i wouldnt have to go to the bathroom in the middle of the night when my dad was really drunk.