Help. i think my mom is dying but she wont tell me.?!
Question: She was recently diagnosed with MS (multiple sclerosis) and its pretty bad she seems to be worse every day. they might put her in a wheelchair. She seems really quiet and sad but sometimes has outbursts. And I heard her crying for the first time in my life last week. (besides when her parents died) I think she might be dying and not telling me.
Answers: She was recently diagnosed with MS (multiple sclerosis) and its pretty bad she seems to be worse every day. they might put her in a wheelchair. She seems really quiet and sad but sometimes has outbursts. And I heard her crying for the first time in my life last week. (besides when her parents died) I think she might be dying and not telling me.
If she is dying she hasn't accepted that fact yet and so she can't tell you. She is going through some very hard times even if she isn't dying right now. She needs your support, your love, your happiness not your fear or your anger that you think she's lying.
You need to be the bright spot in her life right now. If she is dying she will tell you in her own time. Make the most of everyday with her because even if she didn't have MS, none of us know when our lives will end.
My friend's father has MS and it is a horrible disease. It's very hard to be a perfectly normal person and slowly see your life and independence leave, he knew eventually he wouldn't be able to work anymore and then eventually not be able to walk. It's an extremely hard process to go through.
If you haven't already you should read up on MS so you know exactly what is happening. There will be bad days and good days.
Your mother needs your support and love. Make sure she knows she is allowed to confide in you. It may be she is frustrated she doesn't have anyone to confide in with her problems and thinks it's too much for you or she doesn't want to mess with her relationship with you. If she doesn't want to confide in you, connect with one of her friends or close relatives that can help.
Well, if your mom were dying, I'm sure she wouldn't hide it from you, unless your young , but being diagnosed with something is very stressful and emotional I'm sure she has a lot to handle, just try to help her out as much u can
im sorry trust me i kno wat its like!!!
Well my mother is a nurse and she said that ms is a progressive disease but people can live a long time with ms
i am so sorry i don't know what to say!
Well if she is, try to be good to her. Show her that there is still hope between cradle and death. Try to contact her doctor and asked your mother's condition. Prepare yourself from what might what happen to you and to her.
It was very hard for me when my mother died. I was close to her but i wish that I could have done more for her while she was alive. Go to your mother now while she is alive and talk to her and help her with her sadness. Be there for her as her son and try to be strong. Like it or not we ALL will die someday. Don't have any regrets later and do what you can now for her.
At the very least she's dealing with serious depression, likely over her health issues. Winding up in a wheelchair is not high on my to do list, and if that were to happen, I would feel awful. I don't know about dying, but I would put that aside and just be there for your Mom. Be good and supportive to her and let her know that she's still important to you. That's my suggestion.
im sorry that your mom is not well. i dont know anything about ms. if she is dying she may have things that she wans/needs to say or do. you have the greatest oportunity that anyone can have. you have the option if you choose to take it to take care of her, support her, comfort her and clear her heart and soul before she passes. personally i had this opportunity with my grandparents and my favorite aunt.....i failed to take the opportuinty. i dont know why i just did. particularily for my aunt no one did. i talked with her the saturday before she died and she was in good spirits, then she died and i wasnt. all i can say is that if for no other reason stay close to her and do everything that she wants you to do, even if its just to be there. when she is ready she will do what she needs to do. try your best to take advantage of this opportunity, don't waste it like so many do. no regrets.