Stress Relief?!
Question: Ok, I am totally stressed out and I know why too. Money is tight, I'm constantly sick (possible stress ulcer, seriously), my husband and I don't have our own home yet (we're living with the in-laws...), I've recently been put out of a job and I can't seem to get another one, even something at McDonalds!, And it seems like we have a TON of debt!!!!!! (probably due to us going from 2200 a month to 1260....)
Now, since we DON'T have a lot of money, and I need to be trying even harder I guess to find a job, I need something that will allow me to alleviate stress while doing all these things.
Any help would be 100% appreciated.. as I'm afraid this is hurting my marriage, and I don't want to lose my husband...
Answers: Ok, I am totally stressed out and I know why too. Money is tight, I'm constantly sick (possible stress ulcer, seriously), my husband and I don't have our own home yet (we're living with the in-laws...), I've recently been put out of a job and I can't seem to get another one, even something at McDonalds!, And it seems like we have a TON of debt!!!!!! (probably due to us going from 2200 a month to 1260....)
Now, since we DON'T have a lot of money, and I need to be trying even harder I guess to find a job, I need something that will allow me to alleviate stress while doing all these things.
Any help would be 100% appreciated.. as I'm afraid this is hurting my marriage, and I don't want to lose my husband...
Okay, take a deep breathe, relax as much as you can and listen to this. Everyone has bad times, times of stress and turmoil. We may look at other people and think everything looks wonderful for them, but they are only human, just as we are; and have struggles of their own.
Think of the blessings that you have, you have a husband who loves you and has a job. You have in-laws that are helping you and your husband out by letting you live with them. I know that may not be the most ideal thing, and you would rather have your own place; but things could be worse. It is a blessing right now that you don't have the burden of a mortgage while you are out of work, correct?
While you are job hunting go to the library or even go on the Internet and look up some yoga exercises and stretches for beginners. It will work, you do not need any expensive equipment, just comfortable clothes and a carpeted area or mat. You can also look up simple meditation, listen to calming music and just sit with your eyes closed in a quiet room and just breathe deeply for ten minutes will help.
I was diagnosed with an ulcer from stress when I was a teenager, so I had to learn how to deal with stress. If you have a friend that lives in the area, and the weather allows you to walk outside, go out for walks with your friend when you are not looking for a job, it will give you the chance to socialize and exercise.
Since you believe in God, you know that he never shuts a door in your life without opening another one. Network with all of your friends, let them all know that you are looking and are willing to train for something totally new and different and exciting.
There must be a temp job service in you area, they are always looking for people. Like Kelly Business Services, used to be Kelly Girl years ago. I know people that have taken temp jobs through a temp service, and ended up getting another job offer once the temp time is completed.
Something is out there for you, I just know it. The only times in my life I had changed jobs I have gotten better and more productive leads through people that I know than any newspaper ad or help wanted sign. Think positive, and it will happen, you will soon be in another job and will be glad that you made the change.
Think positive, relax a bit and exercise a bit every day and you will be feeling wonderful and be employed in no time.
You and your husband should let this difficult time pull you closer together, and make your relationship stronger. If your husband was the one looking for a job, you would be supportive of him, correct?
Good luck, God bless you and your family and Merry Christmas.
Try drinking heavily.
Try religion
Take one day at a time, put yourself 1st. If things dont work out married, then.... unmarry. But I'd get his *** on a ball, tellin him how I was feeling.
seriously either read or watch "the secret" that can really help.
also some hot creative kinky sex can be great
well exercise helps, take a long walk, listen to soothing music, and well the best stress reliever, lol, your spouse can give you for free.
How long have you been this way?
I was feeling this way a few months ago and I started taking vitamins and a st johns wart every day,helped sooooooooooo much. Try it,couldn't hurt,might help. good luck.
masturbation with sex toys or exercise like taking a walk around your neighborhood. They are pretty much free. Drinking dose not help. Try looking for jobs in fields you would not have gone to like mental health or like residential Counselors. They are always look for people. And Sleeping and playing on the internet are my favorite things to do to relax and also the first one too. Hope I helped a little bit.
I'm sorry to hear that
you have to look at things that you do have in your life,
such as your husband, and your in laws are trying to help.
let your husband know that you love him and appreciate everything his doing for you.
as for your stress, well stress will cause you to be sick.
try thing that will relax you
such as walking, stretching, drinking tea, and talking about everything with a friend, don't keep your emotions in.
good luck , i hope everything turns out okay