My cheating wife pt.3?!


Question: Please read my other questions for background.

My wife suffers from Bi-Polar(on-meds). I'd like to hear from qualified individuals (MDs, councelors, and Bi-Polar people or people with knowledge of the illness).

Is this a valid reason for having an affair? Should I take this into account when I make my final decision? She partially blames the condition for it, not all of it though.


Answers: Please read my other questions for background.

My wife suffers from Bi-Polar(on-meds). I'd like to hear from qualified individuals (MDs, councelors, and Bi-Polar people or people with knowledge of the illness).

Is this a valid reason for having an affair? Should I take this into account when I make my final decision? She partially blames the condition for it, not all of it though.

The manic phase of bipolar disorder is marked by impulsivity and reckless behavior, including in the area of sexuality. If she's on meds and still experiencing the intense manic and depressive cycles of the disorder she needs to talk to her doctor. Are you sure she's actually taking her meds? That is a COMMON problem among people with the disorder. Just because she's bipolar doesn't mean you can know whether or not that is the cause of her infidelity, and that would be hard to live with. You have a difficult decision to make, because she does have a significant mental illness.

You write: " She partially blames the condition for it, not all of it though".
That right there is a woman NOT taking personal responsibility for her actions.
Her Bi-Polar-ness did not get her naked and it did not make her have sex with somebody other than you.
The meds helps her, but it is still her making dumb decisions.
Take care!!

no she is responsible people can use their illness for excauses I have sufferred from bad depression in the past but would not use it as an excause to have affairs. She has been quite selfish and needs to relise that cos their is an old saying selfish people end up lonely people.
In fact their are lots of people who suffer mental illness and this is insulting to them as they are decant people and do not cheat on their partners, many are like it cos they have been abused in one way or another and don,t go around hurting others.





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