E.d. relapse! help please!?!
Question: its almost been a month since i last purged but today i did it. im scared. i cant tell my parents(they hit) and i have nowhere else to turn. i dont want to live with this! im only 15. what if i die. i know i need help, but how? can sum1 shoot me?
Answers: its almost been a month since i last purged but today i did it. im scared. i cant tell my parents(they hit) and i have nowhere else to turn. i dont want to live with this! im only 15. what if i die. i know i need help, but how? can sum1 shoot me?
dotn go to any counselors or parents.. they are full of ****.. im 14 and been threw it before and have friends who've been through it or are going through that... but you know what the best help is....
your friends... you should make them your suport group and make sure they are there to help.... dont even think about suiside one bit. thats never good! been there done that.. tried to many times... just made my life worse... but im telling you... friends are very helpful.
Go to the school counselor and talk. That is a resource available to you.
Changing you life takes time. And you went a whole month, good for you. Just keep trying,remember you didn't learn to ride a bike or learn algebra on the first try.
You are wonderful for knowing you need to change, just don't let a 'slip' keep you from your goal.
is there an adult you trust? if not, ask your best friend to go woth you and arange an appointment with a psycoligist. if u trust them, ask her parents to drive you.
i now that psycoligists are stereotyped to be bad but my friend goes to one and she feels much better
Your parents shouldnt be hitting you at your age,no wonder you are a bit screwed up.Either tell your doctor or go to the library and get some self help books.As to your parents hitting you, can you tell a relative or someone else you trust about this?Maybe the two things are connected.
They shouldnt be hitting you, that is totally unacceptable
Stand up for yourself and account to your own actions. At 15 you are not a child. Talk to a teacher or counselor or school nurse or minister or someone you can trust for help. You need to do it yourself. No one else can help you, or stand up for you or even shoot you. This is life. You can die. Go get the help NOW. You need to treat yourself like you would treat a friend. Stop being hard on yourself and stop the pity crap. Face life.
I'm sorry, sweetie. Do you have a counselor at school? You should probably talk to someone since your parents aren't being supportive. Ppl that have this problem have issues around control. You probably have an external environment that you feel cannot be changed, right? Please go talk to your guidance counselor. That's why they are there.
Hi--Don't let one little purge mess with your mind. Try and use other coping skills. If you have the urge to purge go outside immeadiately. Try and talk to your parents and say that you have had urges lately. You dont have to say that you did. I don't see how they can hit you just for telling them your concerns. If not, do you have a friend to talk to? That might help. Please DONT committ suicide. Suicide is a long term solution, for short term problems. Dont worry most of all. I know that doesn't help, but look at the progress you have made...1 month! That is excellent! Good Luck & take Care!! ;-)
You don't have to live with this. I don't know if youv'e ever heard this saying (it comes from the Bible), as a Man (woman) thinketh, so he is.
It means what you do in your everyday life is acutally born from a thought you had. Your life is what you choose to make it.
Rather than analyze this to death, tell yourself everyday that you are well and choose not to do that again. (even if you have a relapse)
I'm a Mom and have a 14 1/2 year old boy. I don't know what you believe but I would like to tell you that GOD doesn't make mistakes......ever! He keeps his promises too, always and he made you EXACTLY the way he wants you to be. Try to remember that and you'll be able to live with the girl you see in the mirror everyday. He does not make mistakes! Remember that.
Oh honey, I have a friend with an eating disorder and I was scared to death for him. Especially since he disappeared for months at a tame and I later found out that he was being institutionalized for it. Honestly, I think it all has to do with will power. If you want something bad enough you will do anything to get it. If you want to be healthy you will do anything to get there. I myself have been borderline annorexia and it only made me feel worse about myself. The best thing you can do for yourself is to pay close attention to the progression of your thoughts and feelings around this issue. What is the main contributor to your actions? Is there anyway to avoid this or find a better alternative? If you need someone to talk to just email me. Trust me, even though it seems like nobody understands anything I know exactly what you are going through.