Will I ever enjoy sex?!
Question: I've had sex experiences but none I'd say that ever lived up to what I've heard about sex - I also had some experiences where I was molested when young and sexually assaulted later in life (I'm male)
could those issues have effect on the whatever it
also a recovering alcoholic (under the influence while assaulted, as an adult, during those situations)
Answers: I've had sex experiences but none I'd say that ever lived up to what I've heard about sex - I also had some experiences where I was molested when young and sexually assaulted later in life (I'm male)
could those issues have effect on the whatever it
also a recovering alcoholic (under the influence while assaulted, as an adult, during those situations)
I have personal experience with this. If sex is not enjoyable at all for you maybe some counseling would help. I know it takes alot of work, even practice. I've been through counseling several times and it is getting easier. I'm sorry for what has happened to you. Good luck.
The past is the past, you have to let it go. Then decide do you want those who abused you to win by you lowering yourself to their level?
Consider sex has an intimate game and consider the intimacy you wish to give.
you will it just is a question of finding the right person. connect with the person first and take it nice and slow. when you are ready open up a bit. trust me one day you will have nice sex it can take years to find the right person.good luck xx