Am I jealous?!


Question: I can't stop thinking about this person. I always think about how they did me wrong and if they are having fun, being happy. I can't stand the fact their happy and i'm not. What's wrong with me?


Answers: I can't stop thinking about this person. I always think about how they did me wrong and if they are having fun, being happy. I can't stand the fact their happy and i'm not. What's wrong with me?

You used the words I or me 7 times in your question. This means you are not jealous you are obsessed. You must use the energy you are wasting on this individual for yourself. The best reward you can give yourself is letting go. Do better. Show them wrong, without waving it in their faces. Just knowing you are doing better then they are is the best revenge. When I was a lot younger (I am now 60), and people would get my goat somehow. I learned that by being better, doing better, ignoring them, not talking about them, and not thinking about them made me a much better person. Now at 60 I don't care what people say or do about me. I just look at it like at least they care enough about me to dislike me.

just go down to the basement, tie a rope around your neck and hang yourself

Realistically you are the only person who can make you happy! Don't make the mistake of having your happiness dependent on another person. Move on from the situation.

Best of luck. ?

Pent up anger.. not always healthy. Might as well talk it out, therapist or something.


And, I guess you, like I, should live by the saying
No one can make you feel inferior without your consent.

did this person do you terrible wrong? I know how it feels to be stuck in the past and trust me it is doing you more harm than good. Understand that you can not go back and change the past but you can change your future. I have also tended to dwell on people who have hurt me and you need time to heal. Remind yourself of all your wonderful qualities and the fact that you are going to have a very happy future. Please do not let it affect the way you now live or they have one. Trust me i promise you that one day you will not care about them anymore and you can leave the past where it should be- the past. It does take time but it is so worth the wait - good luck





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