What should i do if i lost my friend, and i cant get over it?!
Question: I can't forgive my self and she can't forgive me.
and i just can't manage to forget.
the problem i fell in love with my friend. she understandably didn't feel the same. who would? but the big problem i didnt let it go. i hate my self for this can't forgive my self.
i used to send her emails every day, i was really a nuisance.
it was almost harassment
she would never forgive me and i can't forgive my self.
so that way i can't let it go. and i want to.
just need some peace off mind. i even considered the finel solution. I dont want to live like this no more. just want my friend back. nothing more.what can i do?
P.S i cant talk to her even though we are in the same class in the university. and i cant wright her any thing. she would think i am back to my old self the nuisance. i havent talked or made any contact with her for a year.
Answers: I can't forgive my self and she can't forgive me.
and i just can't manage to forget.
the problem i fell in love with my friend. she understandably didn't feel the same. who would? but the big problem i didnt let it go. i hate my self for this can't forgive my self.
i used to send her emails every day, i was really a nuisance.
it was almost harassment
she would never forgive me and i can't forgive my self.
so that way i can't let it go. and i want to.
just need some peace off mind. i even considered the finel solution. I dont want to live like this no more. just want my friend back. nothing more.what can i do?
P.S i cant talk to her even though we are in the same class in the university. and i cant wright her any thing. she would think i am back to my old self the nuisance. i havent talked or made any contact with her for a year.
even though you want her in your life try letting another woman use her spot.flirt with other women.be a friend to another women why dose she get you and no other women
Get Over It.
If she won't accept you for who you are and she won't talk to you at all, she is not a very good friend. Being a niusance does drive girls away, but there is nothing wrong with you wanting to set things right. The fact that you had the courage to tell her how you felt is admirable. You may not be able to keep this friendship, but at least tell her you respect her. Say something like "I would love to be your friend again despite the way I behaved. I just got caught up in myself and I really regret acting like that. Just know that I am here for you and I want you to still see me as a friend."
Don't be sorry that you loved her, just understand where she is coming from and don't pressure people like that and you will be fine. You will forget this in time, and you will forgive yourself because you will fall in love again! Just hold your head high.
i fell in love with my friend too
im sorry but the only way is to keep away from her totally
being her friend again will only rekindle your feelings for her, therefore you will experience more of that terrible pain
yake it from someone who knows this is the only way and YOU WILL find love again
You can't change her. Enjoy the fact that you felt love for someone, and still do. True love never dies. The only thing you can do is to let her make her choices -and respect them. Stop being so hard on yourself. If you really are a nuisance, strive to change. You are the only one you can change. Then let her go. Give yourself permission to make a mistake, then learn from it.