Is there an easy way out of life?!
Question: I am finding it hard to cope
Answers: I am finding it hard to cope
hun, we need to talk, i need to explain, so please get me on i.m.
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You only get out what you put in. Hopefully with interest.
babes do not even go there you know your friends are here for you xxx
no. grind it out like the rest of us
I'm finding it hard to believe you.
every one feels like that sometimes,tomorrow it WILL be better
You should talk to your Doctor about how you are feeling and also your Doctor will be able to find you a therapist who you can talk to. If you are feeling suicidal please call the Samaritans on 08457 90 90 90. Also talk ot your family and friends about how your feeling.
I have been using this alternative therapy called Emotional Freedom Technique on my anxiety and depression which has helped me a lot. It's very good at getting rid of all kinds of negative emotions and dealing with all kinds of issues quickly. It does sound crazy but does work. It might be something that can help you. Try some of the techniques from the fourth link. Also click on the link about EFT helping this bloke on Yahoo Answers with his agoraphobia.
It sounds like you are suffering from depression. A lot of people feel it more around the holidays. Things can seem very overwhelming, and it's okay that you feel that way, but pay attention to your feelings.
Think about those around you that love you, even those you might not be getting along with very well right now.
Suicide is a permanent solution to a temporary problem.
If you don't want to let anyone know you are feeling this way, try locating a toll-free counseling number you can call just to vent. A lot of times, your local hospital will have a psychiatric ward which has a number like this. I had to use it when I went through a seriously traumatic divorce. I wanted to die, and needed a lot of help to find the value in who I am and regain the will to live.
I hope you do reach out and get some help. I feel very sad to read that you are in pain.
friends, therapy, medications, laughing, living life to its fulliest, exercising, smiling,moving the body, showering, sleeping well, eating well, its all a balance
yes with true friends....one that you can admit doing almost anything too
No, I guess not.Life is struggle.One needs to make great efforts to survive,to thrive,to achieve his/her goals,and to find the authentic meaning of life.Just like an old Chinese saying goes:Life is just like rowing a boat in the river in the opposite direction of the stream, you 'll be flushed away if you don't row hard.So keep working hard.
Life is a process of learning and development. Don't quit - relax, rethink, refocus - and jump back in!
Dr. James Jeah MD
No life is great, it has different tracks, and its up to you to find the right one.
And when you feel you are stuck, dont loose the will to go on.
I know it doesnt sound nice to say, but stop once and ask yourself:what you have learned from the times you have been happy?
Its the bad times that makes you wiser, that takes you were you are ment to be.
Dont worry you will be fine!
No there isn't ! dying is not easy for anyone.
You've taken the first step and admitted you are finding it difficult to cope now take the second step and go and see your G.P. but tell him exactly what you have told us.
It's now the end of the year. You need a little rest. That's all. You'll feel so much better after a little sleep. Roll on 2008!
5htp can help with depression.
Also try Rhodiola Rosea (Siberian Golden Root)
Talk to your doctor if you're feeling suicidal.
Best thing I can say is to love yourself sweetie. Dont loose heart. King David said in the bible 'and this too shall pass' Nothing stays the same, everything changes. You may feel better tommorrow. You can try Bach flower remedies, for changing how you feel. Try to remember a happy time inyour life. I bet you have at least one. If not, try to imagine what it is that would make you smile. Julie Andrew's, sound of music, i simply remember my favorite things and then i dont feel so sad X
Life is not easy. I have considered suicide on more than one occasion and am glad I did not go through with it.
Why have you not gone for professional help.
If you feel the way you do then you are very depressed and need a psychiatrist to get you on the correct medication and a psychologist, to help you find ways to cope.
Oh God, you have no idea how much I want to try and help you right now...
Please find someone you can trust to speak to, you obviously need some support, especially at Christmas. Christmas can be one of the most horrible times if you're feeling low anyway.
If you have got to the stage where you're finding it difficult to cope, then it's very unlikely that you'll be able to do it by yourself, this is why you need to speak to someone. A loved one or your doctor is best. I know this can be hard to do, but once you've found the courage to blurt out your first sentence, tears (or both) to your chosen person, the relief will be immence because you won't have to cope alone anymore.
Regarding your main question - No, there isn't an easy way out of life; it will be the biggest mistake you've ever made if you decide to try and 'get out of life', and the people who love you will never recover if you're gone.
I will tell you something though and I hope to god that it helps you: - If you're feeling numb, dead, detatched and void right now, it is a lot easier to find a way back into life with the right help and support from the right people. When you feel alive again, all the effort and grafting to get there is so, so worth it!
Find a note pad, diary or jotter and write down excactly how you're feeling at the moment and go and find your most trusted loved one and show it to them. If you don't want to show them what you've written, put your words somewhere safe, then go and find someone and TELL them how you feel. Keep what you've written down to read in a few years time when you're feeling alive and you're much happier again; it will make you realise how great it is that you're still alive and well.
I don't know what stresses you have going on in your life at the moment, your heartbreaking post is so brief. All I do know is that it sounds very much like you could be suffering from depression; for this you need support.
Heaps and heaps of good luck to you, take care of yourself and please make the right decisions for YOU.
Lots of love.
honey you cant get love and sympathy out of a bunch of yahoo answerers.
i want you alive, i see you have purpose as no one shouldnt be in this world. i reach out to you. but what i can do is pretty limited since i dont know where you live/ i could be a pedo / you know.
learn to love yourself. only you will be able to do that. sod the world. just because you are sensitive and caring to it, doesnt mean you should be suicidal because of it. who cares whether anyone loves you or things arent going well. things wont get to you unless you allow it to. look at hitler and saddam hussein. they are very bad people, and yet they didnt commit suicide -- they did everything to ensure they stayed alive. just because you have a consience doesnt mean you should die for it.
Nothing is as bad as it seems,
Talk to someone who you can trust.
A problem shared is a problem halved.
Hope you feel better soon.
we all have our crosses to bear, me included you aint alone hun, wish there was someone i could turn to to help me
Please e-mail me....
Promise you will
Thanx & Love, Babette
If you hate your life, change it. Running away and being a hermit in a cave is better than being depressed about it.
getting a little stressed its the same for everyone it only gets worse if you have family and friends over for dinner calm down make a list of what you need to do pin it on the broad when one job is done tick it off at least then you can see your getting somewhere hope this helps
awwwwww!!!!!!!
stop that negative talk,a better tomorrow is just round the corner!!!!!!!
and no ,there is no easy way out,not for the ones who love you anyway........
have a chat with the Greek Philosopher,it will do you good !!!!!!
.......I am waiting......
Rambling Rose I'm hurting with you please respond
soo worried about you
People here care & love you
Bribe the jury?
if you can't do the time, don't do the crime
How many times have i heard this one, "i hate my life, i know I'll ask a bunch of strangers on Yahoo if they know the answer!"
But seriously "everything will be better tomorrow, tomorrow, tomorrow" but tomorrow never comes. Get over it!
in the words of Russel Howard "RADIATOR PANTS"
get a grip woman.
Hey, if were all stuck here, so are you.