Thinking of committing suicide?!


Question: im am really ready to commit suicide, im 22 years old and i just found out that my parents hate me with every fiber of their being, i only have 2 of the bestest friends on this horrible planet one of the two is just as depressed as i am and i know that they will be horribly depressed if i commited suicide tonite.

my parents are treating my 3 siblings like kings and queens and all i get is complete and total garbage. ive been depressed for as long as i can remember. I would love to move out of this hellhole but im not fancially equiped. i have a shi*y job only getting 3 hours a week at min. wage. my dad is trying to get me a job in a factory that i hate more than anything on this planet. i told him that i dont want it and wont last long, hes threating to kick me out on the streets if i quit that job.
i dont know what to do for them to give me as much respect that they give my sibilings.
no none in my family gives a **** about me, my parents, my brother, 5 mnt preg older sis, a


Answers: im am really ready to commit suicide, im 22 years old and i just found out that my parents hate me with every fiber of their being, i only have 2 of the bestest friends on this horrible planet one of the two is just as depressed as i am and i know that they will be horribly depressed if i commited suicide tonite.

my parents are treating my 3 siblings like kings and queens and all i get is complete and total garbage. ive been depressed for as long as i can remember. I would love to move out of this hellhole but im not fancially equiped. i have a shi*y job only getting 3 hours a week at min. wage. my dad is trying to get me a job in a factory that i hate more than anything on this planet. i told him that i dont want it and wont last long, hes threating to kick me out on the streets if i quit that job.
i dont know what to do for them to give me as much respect that they give my sibilings.
no none in my family gives a **** about me, my parents, my brother, 5 mnt preg older sis, a

Please don't hurt yourself! Your parents seem disturbed and they are scapegoating you terribly. The ones they don't like are themselves and they're putting the blame on you because thinking of themselves as flawed is unimaginable. It is an emotionally destructive, emotionally abusive situation you are in. Realize that it's your parents that are very, very angry and disturbed right now. The thing that you are doing is taking their abusive behavior and attitude towards you and now turning it on yourself, internalizing their emotional abuse of you and now thinking of abusing, hurting, killing yourself because they have put an untrue thought in your head that you are not good. Often one person in a family is scapegoated and abused. You are in an emotionally abusive environment. I've been scapegoated, too, by family. It's not for a scapegoated person to see that they are being scapegoated. You are fine. Look at you, you are one of the top contributors on YahooAnswers. You care a lot about other people and reach out to help them.

Life is very difficult for you right now, but once you're on your own and out of your home, you'll feel better. Is there any supportive person that you can go live with? An aunt or uncle? Somewhere you feel emotionally safe and secure.

Go to a hospital emergency room and tell them your home situation. Also tell they how depressed you are feeling and that you're thinking of commiting suicide. You have your whole life to look forward to, once you are out of that highly destructive environment. Ask the hospital to refer to a psychiatrist, a therapist, and psychiatric and social services. Mental health services can help a lot and social workers can maybe get you into a safer environment.

I would feel really sad if I learned that you had hurt yourself. Please stay safe and go to an Emergency Room now. Maybe they'll put you in a hospital so that you can get help for your depression and hooked up with some services. There's nothing wrong with going to a mental health hospital when we need it. Depression is an ugly state of mind that's caused by ugly things happening to us. You have a ton of stress in your life and home right now that's making you depressed and suicidal. Don't give up hope. It's dark now, but the sun will shine again. There is light at the end of the tunnel. I've been there many times.

Thinking of you. Please stay safe. Get some help. And here's a big hug!

Read this book:

"Hello, Cruel World: 101 Alternatives to Suicide for Teens, Freaks and Other Outlaws" by Kate Bornstein

Here's a link to it on amazon.com
http://www.amazon.com/Hello-Cruel-World-...

Suicide is never the answer, I am sure if you dad is trying to help you get a job he cannot be that bad, Tell your parents how you feel, I know it feels hopeless right now, but suicide is not the answer think of how your loved ones would feel do you really want to put them through the pain of losing someone they love, i know it feels bad right now, but i am sure you really dont want to kill yourself if you think about it

You really don't want to do that. What you want is to feel better. There are many good treatments for depression. Please call a doctor, any doctor.

you just think that your other siblings are treated that way, but theyre probably not. you just think they are. if youre 22, then youre old enough so move out of the house, and just leave. that what i would do and commiting suicide no matter how upset you are is not worth it, really. think of the brighter side.

its okay, things will get better.
the best solution is to talk to a therapist, not commit suicide.
i hope everything gets better
<3

Damn girl i know how you feel. Trust me. I have had a hard life too and i have attempted killing myself many times and have had 2 friends do it. It isnt worth it. Trust me. I care about you even if your parents dont. If they truley dont than dont even call them your parents because no is a parent if they do not love their own kid. Just breath and look for the positive. Get a better job and dont tell your dad that you did it. Save every penny you get and then one day just leave. Please email me if you want to talk because i dont want you to do that. You can have a future and a life. Think about it. You could have a husband soon and maybe kids. Done waste that away on your stupid parents that dont care.

I care,

Caroline

Don't do it, no matter how bad things are, they could be worse, so just think of all the people who's lives you will affect by doing this.

You are having a bad day. You are obviously an achiever. Why commit suicide, why not show 'em what your made of and find that job. You can do it. You are a high Achiever on this site. That proves to me you can do it.

Most of us go through a phase thinking our parent think more of our siblings than us. It is not necessarily true.

I hope to find another question on this site soon telling us how happy you are and that you have shown the b....lot of them they were b.........y wrong.

I doubt that your parents hate you... esp ecially if they've raised you since birth.Irritating and all the rest yes.But trust me from an oldish man of 47 nearly 48 years...hatred takes a lot more work than love or friendship.As the Billy Joel song says..."don't forget your second wind" and yes I have been suicidal on more than one occasion over the years. I'll pray for you. Brother Tim M. Murphy....p.s. I used to think that I was adopted until my mom showed me my birth certificate,you are not alone.

Suicide is the not the answer. Discuss it with your parents and if they still don't care run away to a homeless shelter or go to a friends house. Try getting a job at a fast food restaurant or clothing store their always hiring. It may not be a lot of money but you may be able to afford a small apartment. Then you can start rebuilding your life from there. Also, join a church. They will give you the guidance and help you need. Please feel free to contact me if you need someone to talk to. Just don't commit suicide!

ummm plain and simple, don't do it. seriously, it's not worth it. as far as you know, every little tiny thing bad happening to you could turn around like that. and if you end it now, you'll never get the oppertunity to see it happen....

Tell them what you feels. Suicide will not work. If you ever suicide maybe they will notice that they made a mistake but they will not be able to show their love to you anymore. try to do your best. Try to ask your another friend (isn't it you said you have to friends. one of them is depressed. ask the other one). Try to show them you could stand with your own feet. That you can do it.

1-800-SUICIDE

Suicide is the easy way out... It is pitiful and if you were to do it others would look down at you. You might be thinking that they would feel bad if you were to suicide but if they hate you that much something like that wouldn't happen. I suggest going to church because, to me, it calms my mind a bit. Also find a job that you like instead of having your dad find a job for you that you don't like.

you arent ready to commit suicide.
why?
because you came on here telling us your situation which obviously means you want help, consciously or subconsciously.
I'm not being rude but I want you to get help or run to the closest psychiatrist/doctor because they will find a means to get you in a place that will help you, if need be, a psych ward.

dont die, you'll go to hell with suicide. and hell is way worse than earth.





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