Why can't i get over it?!
Question: i got my heart broken last october.. and i dont think im over it yet.. i mean, we still slept together, but it hurt me so much sometimes, and we havent talked in 2 weeks, which is the longest we havent talked in 3 years.... i dont know wut to do.. they're dating someone else, and say they're IN LOVE with them.. wutever, i was told that too, and i dont think there is any love stronger than wut we had.. bcuz of this i dont believe in love anymore and on medications for depression and seeing a psych.. any advice.. and i've already tried seeing other people..?
The no talking thing is my idea.. and it's kinda helping..
Answers: i got my heart broken last october.. and i dont think im over it yet.. i mean, we still slept together, but it hurt me so much sometimes, and we havent talked in 2 weeks, which is the longest we havent talked in 3 years.... i dont know wut to do.. they're dating someone else, and say they're IN LOVE with them.. wutever, i was told that too, and i dont think there is any love stronger than wut we had.. bcuz of this i dont believe in love anymore and on medications for depression and seeing a psych.. any advice.. and i've already tried seeing other people..?
The no talking thing is my idea.. and it's kinda helping..
I'm sorry, but I must say that you may just have to wait untill it passes over. Try avoiding her (or him, unknown). Think of the positive. Eventually, you will come across someone else.
I don't think medication is the answer...and you don't really wanna be that guy do you? The psycho love-sick ex who has to take anti-depressants because he doesn't think he can live without her? You need to do something. If you don't think you can see other people as of right now that's ok. But you should get involved in other things so you're not thinking about them all the time.
It just takes time, sorry to say.
You can help by what you think of and what you tell yourself. as our mind is an amazing thing.
Try to do things you love to do to get through the next few weeks.
Look after yourself too and you will feel better. If you eat unhealthy or dont get enough sleep or stuff like that you will feel worse.
Take this time for YOU! Do what you love, take care of yourself and be nice to yourself. TReat yourself to something you enjoy.
All the best
P.S It is definately a good idea to not see your ex. Well done for initiating that. Keep it up because by experience I have found it worse to see the person. It makes the healing process harder.
sorry for your pain.
you shouldve forgetten that person, because the longer you stay broken the more you let go of your self. and someday you'll know the reason why you have to let go of it all. trust me. even though its the hardest thing to do, but you have no other options. and you have to throw away or store the things that you and that person shared, given, and taken from each other. because its somehow a step to forget that person fully. but if the pain still remains then you have to go to a therapist and get a real help. and not this kind of help that you can get from a 14 yr old girl. just trust me, just live you life to the fullest if your tired of seeing other people and just settle down for a moment, and relax and be with your family. maybe that'll help you,
hope that somehow i help you get an idea or something,
"Live life like there's no tomorrow, cause you'll never know what'll smack you right in the face!"
lexapro is good.....but the only thing that helped me was celebrate recovery............................