What would u make of her response?!


Question: There is a shy, soft-spoken girl you work with. Doesn't like to be in the limelight - seems to shy away from it - even blushes sometimes when she gets attention. For Christmas, she got everyone a card and made everyone in the department an ornament though. Rather than deliver it to each person, she just left in in their mailbox. A few people went up to her and asked if she made the ornament . She smiled and nodded. One person commented on how pretty it was. The girl quietly said that she made it and it wasn't hard to make.

What would u make of her response?


Answers: There is a shy, soft-spoken girl you work with. Doesn't like to be in the limelight - seems to shy away from it - even blushes sometimes when she gets attention. For Christmas, she got everyone a card and made everyone in the department an ornament though. Rather than deliver it to each person, she just left in in their mailbox. A few people went up to her and asked if she made the ornament . She smiled and nodded. One person commented on how pretty it was. The girl quietly said that she made it and it wasn't hard to make.

What would u make of her response?

That was very kind of her to do. She is shy, and may be a little insecure. She probably wasnt looking for attention, rather wanted to do something nice for people. With her saying it wasnt hard to make, she is probably trying to be modest. Judging by her saying it quietly, she is seeking approval and friendship, and doesnt know how to go about it.

She wants attention, but not a lot. She wants to be noticed but not pointed out.

She sounds truly humble. And generous.

She is shy and self-concious. She needs a friend that can bring her out of her shell a little.

She appreciates the People she works with and considers them friends. this is a way for her to give them something not just material, but symbolic as well.

that that girl is a normal person who you should leave the hell alone and stop analyzing

Nothing. She is just shy. She just does not want to make a big deal. Why does there have to be something behind it? She is just a nice girl

I would conclude that she didn't want all the attention. She probably doesn't want to be singled out so she brushes it off as nothing.

that she was embarrassed and was extremely bashful.

that she's humble. it seems she doesn't know how to take compliments, but even so, the fact that she made the ornaments for everyone makes me think she must be a nicer person, just very shy, which is kind of endearing.

That she appreciates the people she works with and wanted to show them.
To truely give, you should not want anything in return.
I guess I don't understand your question?
I would thank her and leave it at that.
She sounds like a nice person.

I don't think she meant anything Bad by saying that it wasn't hard to make. Maybe that was her way of conversations and because she is shy maybe she didn't know what else to say. Some times people speak before they think and maybe that was one of those occasions.

Merry Christmas

she very timid so I would just let her be,

it shows shes modest and doesnt want to much credit or attention for something she feels isnt a big deal and anyone couldve easily made. bc when someone gives you too much credit for something so easy you feel their making it into a big deal for no reason.

I'm not really sure what you're looking for, but I would say that she's just shy. Is she new?

Personally, I'm kind of like her in a way -- I like to do nice things, but would rather not have a lot of attention called to me. I'm starting to come out of my shell, but perhaps maybe she's still in that stage of getting comfortable around people.

With her response to the pretty comment, I would say that she's being very modest -- it sounds like something I, as a shy person, would say, you know? "Oh, it was nothing, don't worry about it." If she is like me though, then on the inside she really does appreciate the attention -- its possible that something happened to her before (perhaps in the younger school days?) that makes her really uncomfortable and unappreciated while at the same time desiring acceptance and some kind of popularity (but not limelight excessive popularity -- just the kind that makes her feel like somebody).

I'm not sure if comparing her to myself is correct, but maybe it helps to answer your question?





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