Easy way out?? suicide?!
Question: I've been feeling suicide since i was a young girl.. i've taken loads of over doses.. its xmas eve and i'm all alone the other side of the world. my Gf has decided not to come and visit me for xmas.. i found out 2 days before she's supposed to be here.. 100's of things are running through my head..
I would have killed myself ages ago but im worried about people around me.. noone has ever been there for me and i seem to be getting these feelings all the time..
People say i need help but i've seen people and its the same old and im the same person.. both my grandad and aunty commited suicide.. i think it may be in the family and im adventually going to do it and maybe im just prolonging it..
I just dont know where to turn.. its xmas in less than a day and i'm worried about my outcome tomorrow after the stress today..
Answers: I've been feeling suicide since i was a young girl.. i've taken loads of over doses.. its xmas eve and i'm all alone the other side of the world. my Gf has decided not to come and visit me for xmas.. i found out 2 days before she's supposed to be here.. 100's of things are running through my head..
I would have killed myself ages ago but im worried about people around me.. noone has ever been there for me and i seem to be getting these feelings all the time..
People say i need help but i've seen people and its the same old and im the same person.. both my grandad and aunty commited suicide.. i think it may be in the family and im adventually going to do it and maybe im just prolonging it..
I just dont know where to turn.. its xmas in less than a day and i'm worried about my outcome tomorrow after the stress today..
Have you considered trying EMDR therapy, used for post traumatic stress disorder? See sections 33 - 34, at http://www.ezy-build.net.nz/~shaneris and also section 20, on sexual abuse: minors. An amended post on suicidal thoughts follows: I went through a similar thing to you; it's important to realise that you are probably deeply depressed at present, but even so, you may still remember times when life was good. Well, it can be again, and soon: but you need treatment, which is readily available; all you have to do is reach out for it. See suicidal thoughts, and depression treatments, at http://www.ezy-build.net.nz/~shaneris in sections 5, and 2. Too many people are found, and revived, but have suffered permanent mental damage, and live the rest of their lives in a semi vegetative state: their family, and friends feel guilty, and responsible, for not noticing the signs, and doing something about it. It's a very nasty thing for them to have to go through, too, even though I appreciate that life is certainly no bed of roses for you, at present, so please, get help, right now: seek assistance, or use the hotlines provided. Why not call the local Sappho society, or lesbian organisations, to see what functions they have going, and attend for the company, and to meet new people?
please do not kill yourself.
theres so much for you to live for. think about it
Suicide is never a family trait - and you should see to it that no one ever sees it that way by not doing it yourself. Your girlfriend didn't come visit? Mine died in a car accident in Europe. Bad things happen to even the best of people. Hell, Jesus himself was crucified - doesn't get much worse than that. You'll pull through. Just sit back, relax, and don't get so down on the little things.
Find the nearest church, talk to the pastor. Accept Jesus Christ into your heart to wash all your sins and transgressions away. HE will heal your heart and mind and save you from an eternity in hell.
wht's rubbish ur thinking .....happiness lies in u ........ not outside the world........
Wow...to much to handle...go to the ground and you will realize how much you have to think..if you going to hell or heaven....suicide isnt the easy way out period! But if you think its time we cant do nothing...but remember you are a loser always if you kill yourself
suicide is not the answer. we've all felt that way in some point in our life. talk to someone and get help.
good luck
god bless you
Pleaser remember, regardless of what religious nonsense you hear, suicide is a very selfish act.
It leaves your loved ones with a fate worse than death. Your parents will probally take the blame for this and might cause suicide of their own. Usually after a child commits suicide the couple splits, even if their marriage was good before. Both the father and the mother will feel like a total failure.
this is a very serious problem, you should really consult a physican, or call a free crisis hotline:
http://www.boystown.org/hotline/index.as...
1.800.488.3000
heh.. i've O.D.ed before
it didn't work
but i learned, even if it doesnt seem like it, someone cares about you
that's what's kept me alive...
it doesnt seem like you have much of a reason to kill yourself anyways..
clam down, plzzz, u have a life, u know people do this and say it all the time, but dnt do it, never do it, u know stress is a stupied thing, its u who has ur own furture, dnt wast it, cuz u know suicde is just a scary, hard, dark, dark, thing, dnt go to that path, plzz
HOPE I HELPED!!
http://depression.about.com/cs/suicidecr...
i tried to kill myself a few days before xmas when i was a young teenager and i had no where to go. they pumped my stomack and christmas passed like a TV playing in the background. ( l barelt noticed) theres been plenty of hard holidays since then, but o've lived a lot of years. and i;m glad i put up with lonelyness in exchange for living the other parts of my life that make me feel great to feel alive, stick it out. it feels bad but thats all it is, bad feelings, you have so many years to live, don;t rob yourself if that. let it hurt. it's ok, agony isn'ty a reason to stop living, you will be amazed what you can survive if you just let it burn,
xxxxxxxxmerry christmas
its nice alot of people come here for help on suicide because i did too and i got help and talked to someone on here and maybe you just need someone to talk to you can IM me on here ive been depressed for almost 4 years and it sucks but somehow since your writing on here youve decided you need help and just a ear and ill be your ear
You know, I used to think that way too. But one day my ex starting telling me how so many people in the world live much harder lives and they strive through it because there's always good out there. Part of life is learning how to live it, and in perspective it's petty to kill yourself when there's millions of people in the world who have it harder than you but have the power to truck through it in hope for a better tomorrow. Life always has rough patches, you never know when they'll come and go. A true test of your will is your power to get through the hard times, it makes you a better person and you appreciate your life more in the end.
From someone who was like you in the past, there is good in the future, but just like everything else in life you need to work to get it. Keep truckin on, I hope you strive for the good times ahead.
No suicide is never an option you were put here for a reason
and I know this won't mean anything to you But i care about you Because i see how you are feeling, But you know we have to love our selves first and formost. You are a just as good as anyone else and don't deserve Death.Death is final and cannot be changed on the other hand you can be .love your self So your girlfriend decided not to come thats Ok
thats her choice Go out and enjoy your self Try to get involved in somthing you really like doing never get down on your self you are doing the best you can be proud of your self, You have made it this far keep pushing along the clouds will pass and the sun will shine and the rainbow will be seen Look ahead and never behind. Remember how you felt when other relitives took thier lives, you were probally hurt and confused, You can't go out that way you are to good for that. I have just said a Prayer for you that god give you the strength and walk with you in your time of darkness
(Hugs My friend)_
suicidal thoughts are such a pain. Once the thoughts are in your psyche they are hard to get rid of. It is especially difficult when a loved one has killed themself (seems to validate it as a possible option).
I often wonder whether the suicidal thoughts are the brain misinterpretting the desire to have a better life to one of ending it.
What do you think?
first off if u have this station u so need to turn to it. turn to TBN(trinity broadcasting network) and come on nothing is that bad and if you nothing to do with ur christmas eve go help out at homeless shelter do something good you'll feel better you'll have fun talking to a lot of people and helping them. okay and no offense but u may not like what i ahve to say but yeah church really does help and no not all of them are the same. some are fake im not gonna lie,but a lot aren't if you find the right one they can counsel you and take away a lot of those feelings. becuase i dont really what to say to but that i'll pray for u and hope you get great peace tonight and pray that those feelings will go away
Please do not do it!
There is much in life to enjoy. your GF is not the centre of your life. And suicide is never a family trait. You are only telling yourself this is so because you want to escape the true fact. The true fact that you are too cowardice to face everybody else.
Look at the number of people who replied to your question today. None of us may know you but everybody here understand how important a life is. Do not end you life. Always look at the world with a happy smile. There are many people who wish to pass the day with a smile and they cannot. Alas. You are given the gift to do so. Please cherish this gift. This gift to smile.
Call a mental health hotline! I hope one exists wherever you are in the world - but there is one almost in every US city. It could be that you have been seeing someone who just isn't that helpful for you.
On the other hand, look at what you wrote. Everything is about you. "No one is here for me." "My friend didn't come see me." (Why didn't you go see your friend?) You need to stop focusing on you and your unhappiness and start thinking about how you can make someone else happy. Trust me, even in your town, there is someone more unfortunate than you in one way or another. Volunteer at a homeless shelter, soup kitchen, or orphanage. Sew quilts for people who have none. Visit grannies in nursing homes. Care for the terminally ill.
But suicide is not a way out, anyway. You will have to deal with whatever you problems you have here in the next world - and you have to stay and deal.
Turn to God. Pray with all your heart and ask for assistance. Seek clergy for advice and comfort - and tips on being a volunteer.
My own prayers are with you so you find the path to peace.
Pls dont do this this is not an easy way out and it will hurt alot of ppl...what if you dont suceed and you end up with out the movement of yourbody and you still have you mind with you??? not a good sitution at all.
I have been there oding and all that but life is worth living for....its a very hard time of the year for a lot of ppl even me..i cant see my children at this time the first time for xmas and their bdays as their father has taken off with them...thats really hard for me to cope with...if you need help during this time i am happy for you to contact me via nickname and i will do my best to help you through this..but killing yourself is not the answer.
My heart really goes out to you. I hope you do not commit suicide. yes, it sounds like it runs in your family, but if this is true, you can break the chain. I am sure you have had people talk to you who know more than I do ,but, Believe me when I say, There are those who would really miss you. I probably don't believe me, and I know you don't know me, but I would miss you terribly! I don't know if you believe in God, but God does love you. Although you don't see a light at the end of the tunnel, things will get better. Is there a church near you? You just need something to believe in. If you have any hope at all, you will make it. You are important! You are special. You have been given a wonderful gift. It's called life. The creator of all things is smiling down on you . He has more love for you than you will ever know. Just say, God, please help me. And He will. Trust me. I once felt like you. That was 30 some years ago. I am still alive today. The world would be a terrible place without you. We all need you here with us. Ok?
If you wish, you may write to me if you need a friend. Bye and God bless you.
Don't have such a thought, anything will be better. U shall not give up hope of life. Learn to love the world, killing yourself can not solve the problems. Try to talk with others and get help. Do not be so stressed. See if these articles can help you.
I attemted when i was 14 and being sexually abused.. and i found a loophole out, so i know you can do the same. Good luck
don't be sad. i'll spend christmas eve with you :-*
Hello Samantha,
I beg of you to please reconsider. I am 43 and I am a war Veteran. I have seen a lot and done a lot. Been through bad divorces, illnesses, bad dreams, etc,etc. I was tired of it all so I thought I would try to stop it all. I attempted overdose 3 times. Almost worked the 3rd time. I was in a coma for 10 days. When I came out of a coma, I saw my family standing next to me, I saw how wore down my parents looked and my Mom was crying.
Morale to the story, people care about you and love you. When I was overseas, Christmas time was the worse. It will come and go. I am the same way you are, I worry about people around me. I finally realized how many people love me and how many people I hurt. Do something to keep busy and keep your mind busy on something else.
I am sorry you are alone and in a strange place although you wont be there forever.
I hate to say this but if you have had these thoughts for a long time, seek help from a Psychiatrist and get on some meds. It took me a few times to get the right one but I did and it helps.
I know times are hard due to the Holidays, especially due to being alone. You will make it through and just keep in mind, you have people that love you and WOULD MISS you terribly.
Please live to see tomorrow, it will be better.
i don't think suicide is the way too go as someone that's tried it and been unsuccessful at it i feel that god doesn't want us to kill ourselves that he wants us to take things the way they come and if we don't feel we can we need to ask for his help and if not him then someone that has a degree in this field
psychiatry
If you are christian perhaps you know that God loves you no matter what your sexual orientation. you should think about who would be left behind, because if you think it's hereditary you are continuing the trend. Search chat groups for sexual abuse and depression.
Don't kill yourself. Just keep trying. Life is hard I know, it's extremely hard but you've been so brave so far and you can't just give up.
I beg you to reconsider. I have never experienced the pain you are feeling but there is soo much more to life than just the bad, you have to remember to see the good parts of life because there is sooo much worth living for...and you just have to look in yourself and find what that is...
My sister first tried to commit suicide when I was 10 years old and remained suicidal for 6 years. I've lost rack of the number of times I've pulled pill bottles out of her hands or watched ambulances pull away never knowing if I'd get say I love you to her again. About a month after her last suicide attempt she found out she was pregnant, she realized she had soo much to live for. There isn't a day that goes by I don't look at my now 3 year old nephew and thank God that he is here becuase if it wasn't for him I don't know if I'd have my sister. And as much as she drives me crazy I couldn't Imagine life without her...I know there is someone who couldn't imagine life without you...God Bless
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commit suicide AFTER Christmas