I feel like getting involved sexually with my cousin? What to do?!
Question: She is 13 now I believe. A first Cousin. I rarely see her often 5 times a year top. She is childish and innocent and completely clueless about me and how I wish I could participate in sexual activities with her. I am 2 and 3/4 years older then her and there are many reasons I have not attempted to do so , not just the law because shes to young and related but other reasons too. Common sense , family trouble , and of course I would not want to force her to do anything should did not want too. And I don't think she has any feelings like that towards me or almost anyone I am confident about that.
But I still cannot stop thinking about what it would be like to talk to her when she is alone and sorta talk her into trying something. But that will never happen and I wish I did not have theses thoughts they are fantasy's that will NEVER come true. Don't get me wrong I am not obsessed I often go months forgetting I even have a cousin until she visits.
Answers: She is 13 now I believe. A first Cousin. I rarely see her often 5 times a year top. She is childish and innocent and completely clueless about me and how I wish I could participate in sexual activities with her. I am 2 and 3/4 years older then her and there are many reasons I have not attempted to do so , not just the law because shes to young and related but other reasons too. Common sense , family trouble , and of course I would not want to force her to do anything should did not want too. And I don't think she has any feelings like that towards me or almost anyone I am confident about that.
But I still cannot stop thinking about what it would be like to talk to her when she is alone and sorta talk her into trying something. But that will never happen and I wish I did not have theses thoughts they are fantasy's that will NEVER come true. Don't get me wrong I am not obsessed I often go months forgetting I even have a cousin until she visits.
now hold that thought. first of all that is very illegal...second of all that is very nasty. being with some one that is your cousin is ver nasty in every way.there is no good way to think about it. i think you should just try to shake the feeling for her and try to find a girl that's non related and has the same wualities that your cousin has. i believe that if it does get to that level neiother one of you will be able to face each other again and second of all if she is not down for it she may tell your family members and they will disown you for even trying such a thing... is it worth looseing her and other family. n ot to mention when the word gets out your friends will forever pick at you
Move to West Virgina. Incest is unhealthy so are thoughts of rape!
ummm..eww. your related.
get a gf instead.
EWWWWWWWWWWW! U SICKO!!!!!!!!!!!!!
INCEST.? let it go, because thats just morally wrong.
13 years old is too young a child to be getting sexually involved. If you are also that age, then you are too young and should stop listening to perverts on Yahoo answers. Also, do not have sexual involvment with your relatives, no matter what the age. You either are a child or you are a perverted adult. In either case you have no business thinking about such things.
The fact that she is 13 should be enough to tell you that it is wrong. Whatever thoughts you have please keep to yourself and don't act them out physically, you will regret it one day.
You should have sex with someone else to get ur mind of her come on dude she's 13!
WTF??? Dear God man!!!
You are in the mental health section asking this question. First of all.....being with a first cousin is not only unethical, but it's also illegal in most States. IF you were to pursue something with this VERY young CHILD & she eventually ended up pregnant...genetics could very likely cause you to have a handicapped child. Nothing that you want to wish upon yourself or anyone else for that matter. My advice to you would be to seek out some couseling on this. It isn't "normal" to have these types of thoughts for a family member & I think that you really need someone to talk to that could help you sort out your feelings.
You're 15 and male. You want to have sex with anything that moves. That's life.
As long as it's fantasy and not reality. Never reality!
If you have to keep something a secret because it sets bad on you conscience then you shouldn't do it. Plus thats just icky
dont beat yourself up about it
just forget you ever thought bout it
You really should not have those thoughts about your cousin. Being 13 or not, incest isn't right! I suggest just trying to stop thinking about her, don't call her, and try to avoid seeing her. These thoughts aren't normal. Forgetting about her probably is the best thing.
i was living in the same house with my cousin and we were friendly to each other and it kinda became a crush between us we could both feel it and one day he crooked his finger to me in his bedroom but i told him no and got out of there,it would have never been right to be involved in such a way.there are plenty of people of the opposite sex to choose from.If you hadn't seen her changing the feelings would not be so strong or perhaps they were and that is why you watched her but it was all too convenient anyway.
Your hormones are probably at their peak now if I remember correctly how I felt at your age. I think you should try to be a really good friend to her and then maybe sometime in the future something might develop. Try something now and you,ll get into a lot of family resentment that might get really nasty. In most places now it is legal for cousins to marry, if it ever came to that. In the meantime look at other girls your own age and develop friendships with them.
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Stop fantasizing about your 13 year old cousin, for God's sake. Take a cold shower, run around the school track for 2 hours. get a grip.!!!!!!
OH BOY! YOU NEED TO TALK TO A PROFESSIONAL ABOUT THIS. THESE THOUGHTS ARE TAKING YOU INTO THE WRONG DIRECTION. SOME COUSINS FEEL LIKE THAT ....BUT IT A FANTASY!!! SEEK HELP DEAR. YOU SAY YOU WON'T ACT ON IT BUT YOU SURE TO TYPE ALOT ABOUT IT. REALLY SWEETIE, ONLY A PROFFESIONAL CAN GIVE YOU THE REASONS WHY YOU FEEL THIS WAY. DON'T BE EMBARASSED TO TALK ABOUT IT. AS YOUR DR. TO SET UP AN APPOINTMENT FOR YOU.. YOU GO FOR MONTHS NOT THINKING ABOUT HER YOU SAY. YET YOUR ASKING ON THIS SITE. THAT SHOWS THAT YOU DO DEAR!!!! TALK TO SOMEONE IT'S THE BEST THING TO DO..
I guess you should try and get involved with other things like sports and hanging out with friends. Going out with another girl may cause you to think even more about your cousin. If you really trust your family, I suggest you should tell them. Don't expect them to be all okay about that though.
I think it's normal to get attracted to the opposite sex even to those genetically related to you. But you know that it's wrong. And I'm thankful that you do. Stop thinking about it and about her. You could always divert your attention to some other pre- occupation every time you start imagining things. And about doing it when she's eighteen ,interested, and willing to keep it a secret, don't even think about it. Believe me, you may not realize it now, but you're going to ruin both of your lives sooner or later. At first, you may think, there is nothing to it. But once you've started, you would keep on doing it and may romantically get involved and so much attached to each other. But since, as you've mentioned, it's impossible for you to be together, then you would have to either eventually say goodbye to each other which would be very very painful and heartbreaking, or, if you cannot control yourselves, go on with the affair and live a life full of apprehensions. Think about it a million times, before even doing it.
your conscience is telling you no but your other male part is telling you yes. Think with your conscience and not the other part. serious consequences could occur if you involve yourself with your young family member. Not only is she too young but she is your family member. Please get help and do not act on this fantasy.
i think you need to seek professional help. preferably from an insane asylum.
You really need professional help, this situation starts to be an obsession. You can't have relation with your cousin, she's related with you in first grade and are incest, it's illegal and unmoral.
The cheap way it's go to church and talk with the priest or the shepard and follow God words in the bible.
Just try to stay away of your cousin and erase those feelings you created in your horny and perverted brain. try to find someone else to satisfy your lower instincts.
I hope God give you enough intelligence to stay away of the dark side.
eewww thats nasty, how sick can u be yo. You need to write everything about ur cousin that u like and then go searching for one just like her. i just want u to know people do change.