How do you improve your self confidence?!


Question: i would like to know. i am not confident enough. i don't think i'm smart or pretty enough. mind you i a lot of people think i'm pretty, my myspace is http://www.myspace.com/thug_miss. but since i have issues with my skin and hair in an afro and stuff. and i don't feel i'm smart enough either. i am always looking at my faults, even though i have good things too. in ways i've been teased and picked at, taught to hate myself. so...how do you improve your self confidence???


Answers: i would like to know. i am not confident enough. i don't think i'm smart or pretty enough. mind you i a lot of people think i'm pretty, my myspace is http://www.myspace.com/thug_miss. but since i have issues with my skin and hair in an afro and stuff. and i don't feel i'm smart enough either. i am always looking at my faults, even though i have good things too. in ways i've been teased and picked at, taught to hate myself. so...how do you improve your self confidence???

Education is a very important ingredient to building self confidence. It's not what you have on the 'outside'... it's what's inside that matters most to anyone whose opinion is worth respecting in the first place.

If you start exercising and start getting more fit that will definitely boost up your confidence. You'll look better and feel better too, and people will be complimenting you left and right. You'll start to notice a difference in yourself, too, and eventually you won't care if people make fun of you or not because you'll be looking so good. Some of those that made fun of you may even start to get jealous and ask you how you do it.

this reminds me of the new country singer,her last name is Swift.
She too was teased about her singing,and how she wouldn`t go out on dates because she would rather sing.Today she is 17 yrs old,and has held the #1 in charts for over 2 weeks.So you teel me who is eating crow now.I can guarntee its not her.Even though she was taunted,harassed,etc,she is doing good for herself.Her #1 song that made her famous was ( Our Song)

i just try and tell myself that i know that there are people that are jealous of me just like im jealous of them. I always try and be nice to everyone all the time and treat everyone like they are important. People generally like me even if i dont like them...becuase everyone eants to hang out with a person that seems confident and is nice and is fun to hang out with

I have the same problem. What I found that helps a little is to tell yourself "Screw them!" I know it sounds kinda harsh but it helps at least a little for me.

Btw Your really pretty!!! I like ur afro and u definitely shouldn't hate ur skin color!

I tried to make changes for my self, such as looking at the postive side rather than the negative. Try to look after yourslef, it might takes a while, but it would be on progress.

Confidence means to "confide in ones Self"

Learning to "confide in ones Self" is also called Meditation. It is a little known fact that Yoga and meditation is the most effective means to restore self confidence.

Google Yoga Finder for local instruction... or check out the 3 links at the Leap Over Web Clutter section of New Free Books. The first book on that website may help also. That is about how to restore the inner light.

Lack of self-confidence is a Spiritual problem. Restore the inner light and the problem will be solved.





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