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Question: they were being influenced to stay away....you felt gossip and rumour was being spread about you....that you were being made the subject of ridicule ?
i say this because i have borderline personality...but ive also suffered with paranoia for a long time to along with other symptoms...im 30 years old.
recentley the handfull of contacts ive made on yahoo answers since i joined a year ago....have stopped emailing me....theyve stopped answering my questions on here......theyve stopped iming me through yahoo messenger & appear permenantly offline.
it started out with them extending the offer to email me first to...and they conveyed through messages that they cared.
same with myspace people have stopped talking to me and al the people i talked to have stopped talking or contacting me.
its like theyve been influenced to stay away or reject me.
ive been a member of a dating site to for over a year, never had anyone contact me.
im clingy to & have low self esteem but do my best with it
Answers: they were being influenced to stay away....you felt gossip and rumour was being spread about you....that you were being made the subject of ridicule ?
i say this because i have borderline personality...but ive also suffered with paranoia for a long time to along with other symptoms...im 30 years old.
recentley the handfull of contacts ive made on yahoo answers since i joined a year ago....have stopped emailing me....theyve stopped answering my questions on here......theyve stopped iming me through yahoo messenger & appear permenantly offline.
it started out with them extending the offer to email me first to...and they conveyed through messages that they cared.
same with myspace people have stopped talking to me and al the people i talked to have stopped talking or contacting me.
its like theyve been influenced to stay away or reject me.
ive been a member of a dating site to for over a year, never had anyone contact me.
im clingy to & have low self esteem but do my best with it
You need to find a counselor that does what is called 'Behavioral therapy'. Somewhere along the line, you missed out on learning some basic social skills. A counselor can help you learn how to behave in a way that attracts people and turns them into friends and lose the behaviors that repel people. It will also help if you spend some time watching how other people interact with each other.
Read over your letter, each one of you negative behaviors and attitudes can be changed into a positive attitude.
Maybe you've influenced them somehow. Try being a little less serious.
I believe you are influencing people all by yourself.
We only know you by the way you present yourself.
We all have been trying to help you.
There does not seem to be any change in the way you are thinking. Maybe you can find a nursing home type place where people can look after you. I know this was one of your past wishes. Good Luck
your thoughts and energy --- what you think about the most -- what you believe - it does eventually become your reality..
Read up on the "law of attraction"..it will change your life!