Why do my eyes become watery, like cry-like, when I am being warned or someone i!
Question: I know that only if you let yourself, people are going to manipulate you.
How can I work on this and avoid looking like I am about to cry when someone tries to put me down?
Like at work, when I am given a warning by the boss, or they try and prove me wrong, I know I look like a defenseless individual. I don't want to go at them and yell at them, but I want to stop taking it in all the time and stop looking so scared. What do I do to stop getting so emotional or sentimental or watery-eyed? Do I just look at them directly in the eye?
Anyone with any good methods?
Answers: I know that only if you let yourself, people are going to manipulate you.
How can I work on this and avoid looking like I am about to cry when someone tries to put me down?
Like at work, when I am given a warning by the boss, or they try and prove me wrong, I know I look like a defenseless individual. I don't want to go at them and yell at them, but I want to stop taking it in all the time and stop looking so scared. What do I do to stop getting so emotional or sentimental or watery-eyed? Do I just look at them directly in the eye?
Anyone with any good methods?
i wouldnt look them directly in the eye all the time, try looking in the eye then shuffling and nodding your head. try to realize that they are not putting you down, just correcting you so that you can do it better, the are helping not hurting. like a pupil and his teacher
Just dont let them make you feel inferior, you are an equal with them. If a close friend of yours warned you this probably wouldnt happen, you would just brush it off. This is probably a self confidence issue, be bold and respectful, just dont be stupid or get cocky.