I think that I might be...?!
Question: I think that I might be bisexual. idk how to tell ppl. if i should tell ppl. or even if I am bisexual. like I like the idea of being physical with a man but i dont like the idea of kissing a man and i dont want to date a man because i dont want the verbal/emotional torture of high school students. but i love girls the physical and emotional and all aspects. can someone help me please?
Answers: I think that I might be bisexual. idk how to tell ppl. if i should tell ppl. or even if I am bisexual. like I like the idea of being physical with a man but i dont like the idea of kissing a man and i dont want to date a man because i dont want the verbal/emotional torture of high school students. but i love girls the physical and emotional and all aspects. can someone help me please?
honey,
there is no need for you to figure this out at your age. High school is a time for curiosity, you do not have to take action on it.
While it is normal for fantasizing about the same sex, it does not mean you are homosexual. It doesnt even mean you are bisexual.
The very best advice I can give you, is if you dont know what to do....do nothing. That way, you have not harmed yourself, or anyone else. Take a wait and see approach....in a few years you will know. If you need help with this, talk to a counselor or therapist. Dont talk to friends, as they can turn on you really fast. Or they can like the idea and take you up on it and embarass you.
If you think you are straight, go with that. If you think you are gay, go with that. If you are not sure, wait and see ok?
Dont do anything you will later regret.
Give yourself some time to think about it, && maybe go out with someone from both sexes to see what interests you more. If you think you are bisexual, then don't be afraid to be so and talk to friends and family.
Good luck!
Do you really care that much about details of what some random person likes to do in the privacy of their own bedroom?
Then why do you think anyone would care any more about what you like in the bedroom?
Lots of people think about this sort of thing, being bisexual is not a bad thing. Just remember you don't need to solve this question right now, give yourself time, only through experiencing life will you know if you are actually bisexual.
Well, the two links below (PFLAG and the APA) might give you some information as a starting point.
The American Psychological Association has honest and direct information about both fact and myths regarding sexual orientation and homosexuality.
PFLAG (Parents, Families, and Friends of Lesbians and Gays) has a support network to help deal with social prejudices and bigotry. You might be able to find some people there to talk to who may understand what you are going through.