Ugly freak?!
Question: I was picked on all the time in school. The boys would find anything wrong with me and be so mean. I'm in high school now and that has had a big effect on me. I don't think I'm pretty at all. I have a lot of people telling me that I'm pretty. I just think they are trying 2 make me feel better. Everytime someone says they like me I think its just someone's joke 2 hurt me. I hate being a big groups with people. I feel like that little girl again. I hate people looking at me. I'm 17 now. What do u think?
Answers: I was picked on all the time in school. The boys would find anything wrong with me and be so mean. I'm in high school now and that has had a big effect on me. I don't think I'm pretty at all. I have a lot of people telling me that I'm pretty. I just think they are trying 2 make me feel better. Everytime someone says they like me I think its just someone's joke 2 hurt me. I hate being a big groups with people. I feel like that little girl again. I hate people looking at me. I'm 17 now. What do u think?
I think u are still very hurt and mad about how u were treated. I think u should talk 2 someone about this. I want 2 tell u something. Some boys are mean and they don't care who they hurt. Ur not a ugly freak.
If you think you are pretty then you are pretty
uh idk i bet your hot, dont worry ;)
u should talk 2 some one! no one can like u until u like your self!
send me a picture i'll tell ya the truth
Those people pick on u b/c theyre jealous and dont say ur ugly thats just making it worse for u and that's wht high skool is all about. dont worry about it and ignore it.
P.S. : B Yo Self
Endure. High school can be both the best and worst time of your life. Try to take what they say with a grain of salt and find people who like you for you. If you are able to find confidantes in your school, then they will see you through to the end.
Know that you are only in school for another year (or so) and if you want to attend college or get a job...the people you will be around will be there because you so choose to have them there. Never again will you be put in a position where you HAVE TO be around people you do not like.
Wait for it.. life will get better. And do not let your past affect your present as much. I know it is hard, but I come from experience. Your future is limitless, so do not dwell on the bad things because they are only for a moment... not a lifetime!
Good Luck!
Omg, I feel exactly the same, you've like just outlined my problems, It's all about low self esteem && confidence, I'm working on it, but it's somthing you can't deal with your own, Email me if you want to talk =]
im sorry to say that people are jerks...i was picked on a lot because i had bad teeth and acne, then i hit high school (teeth straight, face cleared) i dressed weird and was a bit of a chunker (or so i thought) but once i hit my junior year i just kind fell into a group of friends that were just like me and that made feel better about myself and more attractive and i started dating
its all about the people that you hang out around, i was played once by a guy thinking that he liked me but it was a joke, but i started focusing on my appearance and well now he doesnt look so hot anymore (he aged poorly) and i look better then i ever have (i'm only 19)
its all about time and getting out of high school and being with people that make you feel good...you'll get there and learn to laugh at the past and at all those jerks that are not worth your time
I think you have a bad self image and you need to work on that, ALOT! You let those people in school work you to the point that you believed them. That's bad. So now unless you start changing that opinion about yourself within yourself your going to live with what they did to you for the rest of your life.
Why would you want to keep doing that to yourself when you know how it feels when the other kids did it to you.
That's what you need to do, start believing in yourself, and get more self confindence and eventually you'll gain confidence and that will change you from this to the person you should be.
By the way just to give you an example of what those kids did to your head and how you think about yourself now. Ever seen those women who are skinny as a rail to the point you can see there bones. They look like they've been in a prison camp and starved to death. But yet when they look at themselves in the mirror they think they still need to loose weight. That's what you have only in a different way.
You can change if you really want to. It is possible. And you deserve to be treated and thought of much better than what you've been doing to yourself.
Sure, it's tough to hear people try to sweet talk you.
Only people who really get to know you are worth worrying about, it's more insulting if you know it's from people who know you well. From other people it's rather pathetic. They're busy trying to throw the focus onto someone, so that people will be too busy to pick on each other.
You need to survive this, because it was the same for me. I was suicidal a lot, but too much of a coward to do a good job on myself... and later in life, I had a few amazing times that made me happy that I didn't kill myself earlier.
Just face it, people can be really nasty - just learn to ignore them and only talk to people who aren't nasty with you.
You must realise too that you are sensitive, so you will over-react. That's funny for most people, so just ignore. Put a straight face on it, and don't give any response. People have fun kicking a dog, but if the dog just stands there, they get pretty bored and can feel pretty guilty afterwards.
Sounds to me like you have low self esteem. You need to solve that issue, otherwise it's very likely that you'll end up in some abusive relationships that will hurt you more. You need a boost of self esteem, and a really big boost, for that matter.
I am constantly dealing with ladies that are in abusive relationships and can't get out of them. One thing they all have in common is a very low, or almost non-existent self esteem.
You need to find out whom you are. And until you really love yourself, don't make any significant moves in your life. You are at a very frail state right now, and the morons are attracted to that. Don't be another moron magnet. Deal with your issues, get help, and be whole! It pays to be able to value yourself the right way.
You are a precious human being, and you need to tell yourself that every morning. You are beautiful, and the real beauty comes from inside, remember that! As far as those morons who hurt you - you need to forgive them if you're going to conquer this. Please get help!
Sounds like you have an inferiority complex .You must realize you deserve to be loved by yourself whether others love you or not or whether you feel attractive at the moment or not .God loves you unconditionally .It's the devils job to convince you he doesn't .
you are not ugly. you go tell anyone who even calls you that to go take a hike. im sure your personality is great but not everyone can be beauty queens. just remember you are beautiful in the inside.
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