Is it normal when you are considering suicide...?!
Question: ...to think about wanting it to hurt the feelings of people who said they cared about you?
Answers: ...to think about wanting it to hurt the feelings of people who said they cared about you?
Sounds to me like you don't really want to kill yourself. Sounds like your feelings are really hurt and you want to lash out at people. Generally, when a person is serious about killing themselves, they are only thinking of themselves.
You sound like you're just being a drama queen and having some problems dealing with your emotions. We've all been there. I'll tell you what I've learned. The best way to get back at people who have hurt you is to do really well. Ignore them and make something of yourself. Prove them wrong. My ex-husband had me convinced that I was worthless. He would alternate between telling me he was madly in love with me and beating me. It was the very worst kind of marriage. One of his biggest beefs with me was that no matter how hard he tried, after four years, I never got pregnant. Every time I had my period, I was so scared because I knew he was going to go berzerk.
So, what did I do? I got some balls and divorced that piece of Shhhhht. Then I found a man who treated me right, didn't care if I couldn't have kids, etc. Now, I am happily married with a well-balanced man and pregnant. So, did I want to kill myself when I was with my ex? Yep. But my ex recently found out that I'm pregnant and I hear that he's been drunk for a week. My revenge on him was to push him out of my life and do whatever I could to be happy.
I suggest you do the same. By the way, there is no shame in seeking counseling. I don't think I would have survived without the help of my doctor.
Why...? Are you...? Dont!!!
Go to a doctor, considering suicide is a sign of being depressed and they can help you out.
no u idiot
Yes it is normal to want to harm people who have harmed you.
yes...
They'll get over you, but you'll be dead forever. Maybe you should watch one of my movies first.
it is not normal to consider suicide. get help!
Which is why suicide is so selfish.. that is exactly what it does. You are feeling sorry for yourself and you want others to hurt like you do.
yes...very normal
but the fact that you ( or whoever is contemplating suicide) is considering how other would feel after you'd gone, suggests to me that you dont want to do this...
Talk to someone, your doc, or a good friend, there is help available.
Good Luck
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Um...I thought that WAS the whole point of suicide no? Maybe you should get off the computer and get some help....
thats called revenge. revenge is a normal feeling but one that must be controlled. u should get some help or some new friends. its never worth taking your own life sweetie
yes and it is also normal to talk about your feelings with Friends and family you should do that do not bottle your feelings or they will explode.
No, not normal. Get help. . .they will only hurt for a little while and you'll be still be dead.
hmmm.... i dont no if thats ok
dont freak urself out tho
I don't think that is very normal. Maybe you should try talking to someone like a counselor or a therapist. Sometimes this can help tremendously.
yeah thats not normal
one word
psychology
No it's not normal at all. Suicide is the worst answer to any problems you may have.
No, cuz you are then doing it just to hurt them. Stay alive and get revenge. Much sweeter.
yes don't do it get help talk to a friend or parent
No. You better see your doctor.
No it just proves what they say all along about Suicide that it is a selfish act. How about talking to the people and just tell them that they bug you instead of resorting to such a stupid attention getting act.
Not really, the only one you hurt is yourself and the people who love you. You should not want to take your life. Maybe it is time to talk with someone you trust.
Never ever do it! If you need help then find a friend or loved one.
You were put on this world for a reason. You need to find out what that is. Suicide is a selfish act and is for chumps.
I think at some point we all think this way.
Someone hurts us and ultimately we think this way knowing that that would be the biggest way to hurt them.
Let it go. I know it hurts. But thinking that way can only hurt yourself more.
I have no idea if its normal or not, but trust me, its NOT WORTH IT. You will hurt the people who really do love you, and they will feel awful the rest of their lives. IT WILL GET BETTER. LIFE WILL NEVER BE THAT AWFUL THAT YOU NEED TO COMMIT SUICIDE.
i believe it is normal to think about the subject, but to consider comitting suicide yourself is not normal. It is probably time to speak with somebody that is not judgemental towards you... maybe even a professional counselor or your pastor. Seek help, and remember that there is nothing wrong with asking for help. good luck and God Bless
i think everyone at least once in their lives thought about it and i think they be fibbing if they said they didnt . if you really have urges to hurt yourself get on the phone immediatly and call 911 or a close friend of family member and go to the hospital where someone can help you. nothing is ever that bad where tomorrow cant start to fix it.
yea if ur pissed at them and depressed. But thats why i cant do it cause i myself love too many people to let it all end and never see them again. I felt that way once and now that i look back on it i relize it was the worst feeling and stupidest thing to ever think. Dont do it cause ur just depressed. Dont do it at all.
if your thinking of commiting suicide get help from your doctor or someone close.
dont worry about your family finding out that you've been talking with someone because no matter what age you are you'r entitaled to a confidential service
yes the suicide hotline has my number blocked