Does women know what a man thinks of( a player ) , when he's trying to seduc!


Question: When i say a "player" what i mean basically is a guy who's a mind reader , well basically a player .
I like to think i'm pretty good with women ( in my own very limiting ways ) ..
but i went thru depression , anxiety , panic attacks and many other things which i dn't wanna go deep into.
( I am getting much better now , regained my self confidence , my self esteem etc..etc.. but ,Now a days i feel as if the women i'm trying to woo already knows what i'll tell her next and that's making me a little anxious , is this rational ( sometimes i feel like she's in my head , just like I'm inside her head))- do women have this capability just like men , when it comes to seducing?

Do you think a women knows when a man talks to her in all the right ways , that , and know what he'll say next ( or the reason why he said that 6 minutes ago or said this ...? or she's just amazed and happy how good he is ..?


Answers: When i say a "player" what i mean basically is a guy who's a mind reader , well basically a player .
I like to think i'm pretty good with women ( in my own very limiting ways ) ..
but i went thru depression , anxiety , panic attacks and many other things which i dn't wanna go deep into.
( I am getting much better now , regained my self confidence , my self esteem etc..etc.. but ,Now a days i feel as if the women i'm trying to woo already knows what i'll tell her next and that's making me a little anxious , is this rational ( sometimes i feel like she's in my head , just like I'm inside her head))- do women have this capability just like men , when it comes to seducing?

Do you think a women knows when a man talks to her in all the right ways , that , and know what he'll say next ( or the reason why he said that 6 minutes ago or said this ...? or she's just amazed and happy how good he is ..?

Confusing question, but myself I do listen and first impressions are everything, I remember what they always say, but I also personally read into what they say and internalize it and have ways of taking what you say and turning it into what I heard you say... might be hard to understand, but I have Borderline Personality Disorder and thats my specialty. I thought I'd answer your question cause it really gets me thinking of how I "hear" people and how I "listen" to people... Shawny

Its an 'oh my' time.
You need to find a good copy of the Rumours album and listen to the track that has the lyrics about 'players' and being loved only 'when you're play-in'.

Seduction happens when it is going to happen and only if you keep playing. Once you think about it, or try to stategise it, the moment is lost. There is no mystery, grasshopper, to the line 'girls just want to have fun'. Which if you get your head out of your wosis you will see that this is the case.

When I was in mid life, I was divorced and incredibly lonely. So much so that I 'dated' four women at the same time - part was tragic, my wife now was the good part.

A friend suggested I listen. It has taken more years that I like to admit, and he was right. Getting laid is important, I would not disagree, but if you are so wound up with "trying" than nothing or worse can happen.

There is a balance point between men and women. Since we have ultimate variety don't think you have guessed right. Finally, duh .... women have a stronger "urge" then men so keep that in mind whilst you play..play..play.

I do not know what your situation is, but lighten up sounds like a good approach. She is just playing with your mind----because she can.

I think you over estimate the ability of both sexes to read each other`s minds. I`ve not seen some women for a gap of twenty years or more and when reminiscing the conversation from one party or the other has gone "I always had a soft spot for you but didn`t know you felt the same way" or "I never thought you and I would get together when we met" the worst one goes "I always liked your friend so and so but thought he/she was out of my league" "Oh he/she was mad about you, but felt the same" And no I`m not a bad communicator, we all could improve.
I don`t understand why you think men and women can mind read unless they are being blatantly obvious, some of my best relationships have grown out of just friendship, try having a conversation first before trying to get her between the sheets.





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