Do you ever get to a time in life when you feel like you're nothing?!
Question: me
im 19
i basically screwed up college so have to start over
problem with that im not very scholastic so dont think i'll pass
and also have no clue in what type of job i want
im just now going to get my license and i still live with my mom
dont have very many friends becasue i work/school full time
and it seems that ill never find the one i love
and my mom reminding me about all of this every day dosent help
to top that off im moving in a month so it's too late to fix-it with my friends and there is this guy thats an interest but im moving soon
anybody ever feel like this
what do you do to uplift yourself
Answers: me
im 19
i basically screwed up college so have to start over
problem with that im not very scholastic so dont think i'll pass
and also have no clue in what type of job i want
im just now going to get my license and i still live with my mom
dont have very many friends becasue i work/school full time
and it seems that ill never find the one i love
and my mom reminding me about all of this every day dosent help
to top that off im moving in a month so it's too late to fix-it with my friends and there is this guy thats an interest but im moving soon
anybody ever feel like this
what do you do to uplift yourself
Hey, your gonna be okay, it is just a matter of figuring out what YOU really want in life...sit down a prioritize...if your life needs tweaking, start small, organize your life to start with. Then look yourself in the mirror, smile now and then, if you are
always saying to yourself affirmations like "I am successful" or
"I'm acheiving my goals" Put it in present tense, so that your mind is working positively, believe it or not our own mindset works wonders on us. It will take time, and EFFORT on your part, but it helps if you can get a grip on what you feel you need to do in life in positive direction. Your effort will pay off,
you'll be more positive, and that always draws people in. Be proud of the "work in progress" you will be. Hope it helps out
some. Just keep in mind the Elenore Roosevelt quote, "No one can make you feel inferior without your consent."
Take care- Heart2Heart
Maybe try to talk with another loved one, Like your grandmother
i've felt like that my whole life. my family doesn't help either, they are always making me feel like crap.
i feel like that too.i m 19 too and a big failure and ruined life.evryday seems to be destroying me.my studies r worst hit.its not something new.many feel like that.i had an argument with my psyctrist and feeling angry i m not taking medicines.if u ever feel like talking u can talk with me at :addmeifulikeme@yahoo.com
I did the same thing when I was 19. Things do get better, but you are going through a rough transition in your life.
Your mom isn't very understanding and I wouldn't give any credence to what she is saying. I know plenty of 19 year olds that still live at home because it's too expensive to live elsewhere. Expecting you to know what you want to do with your life at the age of 19 is not fair either. I'm 29, and I still don't know what job I want. You feel things out and figure it out with time and maturity.
And not everyone is ready for college right after high school. It's unfortunate how parents try to force that down their kids throats. 12 years of school...and some of us need a year or two to just live before continuing our education.
Being 19 is no easy thing. You aren't fully adult at that age...and your just at the beginning of figuring things out. Love is no exception. Now is the time to date, meet knew people and have fun - no expectations, no commitments. You have the rest of your life to be tied down to another person...don't start looking for that now. I promise you aren't going to be the same person in ten years because I'm nothing like I was ten years ago. We mature, pick up different values and realize who we are in that time.
So at 19, yes, you are going to experience plenty of days where you feel like nothing. But you are going to get older and things will come together. Try to remember that and relax. Don't let your mom bother you because she obviously can't remember what it was like to be 19, otherwise, she would appreciate your situation and be less hard on you about it. Also, you will find love. Maybe not as soon as you would like, but when it's meant to happen...it will.
Oh...and I didn't get my license until I was 18...and my brother didn't get his until he was 21. (It's amazing how much you sound like me lol)
I wish I was 19 again.
This will cheer you up. I'm middle-aged, I have a nerve disorder that gives me minor seizures randomly at any time of the day.
I have nerve damage and diabetes. My wife left me after 16 years. I came home one day and her, the kid and all the furniture were gone, and I had no idea where they were.
I work at a sh*t job, at a call center, listening to mind numbing stupidity of morons who have no business touching a PC.
I come home and do Yahoo Answers and then watch porn until i fall asleep, and then we do it all again.
You don't have it so bad.