I'm afraid that peoples judge me. How can I ignore?!
Question: I'm a shy guy and cares a lot about what other people think of me so I don't do things that may people think I'm strange.
For example: I like hardcore piggy porn but I never admit it.
and I'm a health nut but when I eat with my friends I'm trying to not to look like one. So other people don't think of me as a Mr. Particular.
And I can't stand with when things are un-organized. Like un-done launduries and dishes, messy rooms.
I really got mad and embarrased when my friends make fun of me with it. I fought with someone because of it. I really wanted to kill him when he makes fun of me. I punched him and If someone didn't stopped I might trying to hit him with a bat. You see, It's really a problem for me.
Why I'm so afraid that people would judge me? And How can I ignore it? You don't have to cheer me up with nice words I just want to know why I'm like this.
Answers: I'm a shy guy and cares a lot about what other people think of me so I don't do things that may people think I'm strange.
For example: I like hardcore piggy porn but I never admit it.
and I'm a health nut but when I eat with my friends I'm trying to not to look like one. So other people don't think of me as a Mr. Particular.
And I can't stand with when things are un-organized. Like un-done launduries and dishes, messy rooms.
I really got mad and embarrased when my friends make fun of me with it. I fought with someone because of it. I really wanted to kill him when he makes fun of me. I punched him and If someone didn't stopped I might trying to hit him with a bat. You see, It's really a problem for me.
Why I'm so afraid that people would judge me? And How can I ignore it? You don't have to cheer me up with nice words I just want to know why I'm like this.
Some people are really shy. Shy people are more sensitive.
You may also be suffering from social anxiety disorder.
maybe your afraid of being judged because you believe that your the only one who does those things, that your the only male that behaves that way, but your wrong there are millions of males who do the same things as you, your not alone.
give yourself a break, let them make of you and just laugh at it, enjoy life
Your behaviour is abnormal. The fact that you have asked the question suggests you think this is the case also. If you thought you were normal you wouldn't be asking.
I suggest you discuss these issues with a GP with the view of specialist referal.
a wise man once said..."pay no mind to those who talk behind your back...it simply means you are two steps ahead"
you'll find your real friends who will accept you for who you really are
Wtf??!? Is piggy porn..?
okay, first of all... you should NEVER care about what people think!! what do you have to prove to them?!... NOTHING
if you like things neat and tidy... don't be ashamed! there's absolutely NOTHING to be ashamed about!!
you like healthy food?.... don't hide it!!.. at all!! eat healthy in front of your friends!!.. who knows... they might copy you.... and its better too... cos they will start to feel jealous because you will be the healthy one, while they're slobs who put on weight cos of their bad eating habits.
Just be your own person!! life is too short to be constantly worried about what people think of you!!!
And if your friends are the ones making fun of you.... then they really aren't real friends!! get new ones!!
if you look up friend in the dictionary.... it should say someone who doesn't judge... and someone who sticks with you no matter what!!
good luck!! and you shouldn't care what people think!! people who judge are JEALOUS people!!
It's just part of life. There are TONS of people like that. AND there are going to be people that are judgemental. All you need to do is ignore it and move on... We're all different. If your friends are treating you bad simply because you're different from them, then you need to find some new friends.
Because you want to fit in a crowd. You want to be like your friends.The problem is who cares? You are you and that is okay. Your friends have the problem not you.You want their approval don't you? Why is that so important? All that matters is what you think and feel. How to ignore it? You are sensitive and probably you have been made fun of alot. I can understand that. I don't know how to tell you how to ignore it but once you start liking yourself and accept yourself the way you are only then you can truly ignore it.I can't stand un-organize things myself. There is nothing wrong with being a neat person. I am that way and no one bothers me. It is okay to be yourself.
You should never be afraid of people judging you! I feel for you, I really do... You sound like you are a very paranoid person and trust me this isn't a good thing, you may need to seek professional help from either your local GP Doctor or a psychologist! Just believe in yourself and try not to take everything so personal! You should embrace your life to the full!! Sure, everyone gets a little shy every now and then, or some more than others... But you shouldn't need to seek other peoples approval all the time... Just relax and be kind to yourself! But again I really think that its important that you seek professional help ASAP! All the very best... Bless you! Take care! :-)
It sounds like you have social anxiety (you said you were shy) Social anxiety disorder is when a person fears social situations so that they can avoid being socially evaluated. Maybe see a counselor.