Im feeling so down?!
Question: okay alot of these issues that did happen to me are my fault and now im trying to rebuild my life. first i was attending college i was doing well but i decided to work and take one class which eventually i stopped going to school(6months ago) and was just working i got fired 4 months ago and things have been in shambles ive been everywhere looking for a job, my parents tell me i should work at the bank or at a hospital they havent called at this time i dont care what type of job i have. im going back to school next week(sorry about the rant/confusion) not only is everything terrible for me but im also 21 and i still live with my parents i dont know what to do. its understandable when my mom fusses but when i try to get a point in she hollers what can i do
Answers: okay alot of these issues that did happen to me are my fault and now im trying to rebuild my life. first i was attending college i was doing well but i decided to work and take one class which eventually i stopped going to school(6months ago) and was just working i got fired 4 months ago and things have been in shambles ive been everywhere looking for a job, my parents tell me i should work at the bank or at a hospital they havent called at this time i dont care what type of job i have. im going back to school next week(sorry about the rant/confusion) not only is everything terrible for me but im also 21 and i still live with my parents i dont know what to do. its understandable when my mom fusses but when i try to get a point in she hollers what can i do
ok so i know it is not what you want to do, but you just have to believe that everything is going to be okay. becuase i think that those sorts of things are in the mind.
you need to step up and get a job. anywhere. fast food, resterants, grocery stores. anything becuase really you just need the money to get out of your parents house and pay your bills.
i know that it is thee hardest thing in the world, but just let your mom win the fights. because all that matters is that YOU know you are right and are doing the right things in your life.
i say that you need to go to your classes like you are suppose to, and you also need to take some time for yourself. you have to enjoy life. go out with friends, go shopping, go to a movie. do whatever you want to do, just make sure you are enjoying yourself.
i really hope that my advice helps you!!
It's time to pull up your socks and get moving with your life. Focus on one thing at a time and as for mom .she needs to LIGHTEN UP!
Sorry to hear that.
Wow. Reading the first 4-5 lines, every single work, I thought I was typing this question. I am currently in college and will be taking only one class and considering getting myself a part time job and going back in fall 2008. I guess I'll say that you are not alone. I would like to explain my situation but it will take too long to explain.
im not sure i understand ur question
but if ur going back to skewl thats good
try to make a life and get a simple job
try to save up enough money to get an apartment
nd then i guess just wait till u meet some rich guy nd marry him
i dont think i helped....sry
but u shuld try to stay in skewl for a while b4 u try to get any long term jobs
nd wen u get a job stick with it
Girl...Take a deep breath and relax. Don't worry that you are still at home. So many teens want out and find out the hard way that It's tough to live on your own. You are doing what god is allowing you to do. No more No less. I'm not in any way a religious person but I strongly believe that god will let you struggle but not suffer. You are growing up and taking responsiblity. Do go back to school. You are going to need that degree. If you are willing to do the hard work and deal with your parents when they get on your nerves, then believe me... It will pay off in the end. Good luck and keep your head up
Buggs*
Hey you're not alone, I've been out of work since the end of Febuary and I even have a college Degree. It has been quite a nightmare looking for jobs, so much time searching the internet and asking people if they needed workers, I would send in my resume and I would never hear from them ever again, I signed up for temp agencies and would try to get assignments, I would like have to send in my resume, phone interview and then show up at the office for another interview all for a temp job that lasted like a couple months and only pay like 10$ an hour also the office would be like 1+1/2 hours from my house and I still wouldn't get it. The only places that might've hired me were insurance salesman jobs where you have to pay them to get training (money I didn't have) and lots of wierd job offers that def looked like scams I got after I signed up for monster.com.
I finnaly did get a good job,even though I interviewed like in October, they finnaly got back to me and said they'd hire me at the begining of January so it starts in a week.
Throughout it all I would have to deal with credit card companies calling me all the time because I was late on my bills because I had no money, and my family compaining about me playing computers games instead of working even though I was trying hard to find work. I live at home too, when I would get annoyed at my parents it would sting really hard because I knew I couldn't leave home because I had no where to go and no money. Hey you're only 21 I still live at home and I'm about to turn 23 T.T So I kinda understand what you're going though, life is hard and unfair sometimes (actually forget that, most times it's hard and unfair). If you need someone to talk to feel free to e-mail me it's sometimes helpful to know people that have the same trouble as you.