Constant crying... depressed?!
Question: First off, I'm 14 and a girl. And I think I might be depressed or something, because every night I can't sleep without crying first. I don't know why I cry but I do, I get sad about my messed up family (parent's divorced) and then I end up in tears. I am confused how I feel, and I kind of liked a guy but now I don't think I do? I can't tell. Is something wrong with me? I don't want to talk to my mom about anything either, she just wouldn't understand.
Answers: First off, I'm 14 and a girl. And I think I might be depressed or something, because every night I can't sleep without crying first. I don't know why I cry but I do, I get sad about my messed up family (parent's divorced) and then I end up in tears. I am confused how I feel, and I kind of liked a guy but now I don't think I do? I can't tell. Is something wrong with me? I don't want to talk to my mom about anything either, she just wouldn't understand.
If you can't talk to your mom, you need to talk to someone. But, I do know that your mother would NEVER want you to be so sad, so I would really encourage you to get courage and talk with her about your feelings.
Being sad and emotional is a normal part of life, but you shouldn't be crying everyday. TRY really hard to not make yourself cry tonight and force yourself to focus only on the positive things. Even if you come up with lame examples, keep thinking about the positive things. We can control much of how we are feeling with positive thought.....
you should talk to your mom, rebuild that relationship.