What's wrong with me? Could it be depression?!
Question: I think I'm depress for some reason becuase I just find out my ex-bipolar boyfriend have two kids now but he only 21 years old, I get so depress about it when I keep on thinking about it. I don't know what kind of bipolar he has but I remember him telling me that he have a dieases that will make the person hit on you or something but I guess that is bipolar and something else. I really liked him and But He have two kids now by his new girl also my other ex's.
How can I get past him and get over my depression?
Answers: I think I'm depress for some reason becuase I just find out my ex-bipolar boyfriend have two kids now but he only 21 years old, I get so depress about it when I keep on thinking about it. I don't know what kind of bipolar he has but I remember him telling me that he have a dieases that will make the person hit on you or something but I guess that is bipolar and something else. I really liked him and But He have two kids now by his new girl also my other ex's.
How can I get past him and get over my depression?
I think you need to turn this over to your Heavenly Father and ask him to help you. And He will , A broken heart just take time to heal. Would it help you to know most everybody in life gets their heart broke at one time or other in their life time. But ,it would help if you would find a close friend to share this with,
I also think you are mad at mom. right now. But she could maybe, see thing you couldn't because you were so in love with him. Also you feel rejected. and that a terrible feeling. But, you are loved.Can you you afford a short vacation ? Maybe that would help. just to get your mind off of it. Join a support group,in your town, of others, who are going through this. same pain. Also you will; meet a lot of new friends . Call your mental Health office, they can give you the information you need. Learn to laugh. laughter is a very good medicine. Good Luck and Happy New Year God Bless..
First off why would you believe that there is a disease that makes someone hit on other people?
Second, why would you be upsed at his having kids with someone else when he sounds like a loser who will breed at a moments notice.
You need to look at the truth, do you like this sort of person or do you deserve better?
Truth is, you have to be a good partner to have a good partner so give yourself some credit, and find someone with self respect, a low BS level and compassion.
if you think about things a little differently, you might get over him faster. for example, you should be happy that those arent your kids. i am 21 with 2 kids and i love them to death, but it is so frickin hard. trust me. since youre not held back by a man and kids, you have the world in the palm of you hands , you can do about anything you want. go to school and get a career where you can make like $1,000,000 a year. go out and party with friends, you can always find another man and he totally lied to you about the "disease" thing, you dont want to be with a liar