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Question: my boiifrend cheated on me andd now im reallli upset.
i trusted him w/all ma heart and he cheats on me! i dont get what i did.
wat can i do t0 get my mind off thingss??

-thnks
<3 kate.


Answers: my boiifrend cheated on me andd now im reallli upset.
i trusted him w/all ma heart and he cheats on me! i dont get what i did.
wat can i do t0 get my mind off thingss??

-thnks
<3 kate.

Gimme a Call :)

Do somethiing diefrent.
talk to someone like your best friend or something
find a way to get all your anger out.

Find a new boyfriend

Kate, I feel 4 U! I've been cheated on in the past. I am curious how old U and he are??

Timothy

:o)

go cheat on him....let him feel what its like to be hurt

you will find someone else who deserves you, trust me forget that loser

well how long have you guys been together? and i suggest you just end it. I know it's hard, trust me, but i wouldn't be able to live with myself if my own boyfriend did that. You would constantly be thinking about what if he's out with another girl again or something. I don't know.. i KNOW it's really hard but it's for your own good.
Good luck hun.

wen that happened to me i listened to music all day!
but not a love song because that brings back the memories :(

Learn real grammar and spelling. I'm sure your 1st grade education frightened him!

PS. Since when was there a numerical digit zero in "to"?
My goodness.

you should do yoga, or be happy. relax, && forget and forgive ur bf

aw, dont be jurt, they're just stupid boys.

i thought my bf was the one too, he said i love you, and your amazing
ans then breaks up with me the next day.

we shouldnt be so so hung up on them


byt yeah im really sorry to hear that
:(

You did nothing. He is the ***** for dumping you. Just do not think about getting together with him again. He cannot be trusted. You deserve better.

You should go out with your friends and dont think about it. Whenever I go out with my friends I get my mind off of it!

call a friend, get a shoulder to cry on...he is an asshole....youll find someone better!!!! u live you learn, youll get stronger!!!

Your boilfriend did this to you ? I'd find a new boilfriend if I were you. Good Luck ! :)

Just cry . thentry to decide your next step, together apart. talk to your boyfriend and see what happens.

just try to find a new guy and be plain hard to get and dont let him back in your life dont worry theres a reason why he didnt make it to your future.

Easy, don't blame yourself. Forgive yourself for blaming yourself. Forgive him. Let him know that you honestly deserve respect and have dignity. And that you respect and acknowledge his dignity. So that you will distance yourself from him as a sign of respect. Move on, stop obsessing.

It's nothing you did. Some guys think with the wrong head and apparently that is what he did. He is in testosterone overload so dump him and find a real good guy.

just get a new boyfriend that could help

I know exactly how this feels.
Break up with him and make it a CLEAN break. Don't hang around begging for him to come back. If he really wants to be with you, he'll come back on his own. I know it hurts, but you need to let go of this bonehead.

Listen to some angry music, it'll make you feel better. Find an activity that's new for you and focus on that. Talk to your friends. Live it up, you don't need boys! :)

go to a place where there are other guys, look around and realize, out of 5 guys you see, probally 4 of them will treat you better than your last boyfriend and the 5th is gay and will treat you the best!!!

Get over the cheater, no one deserves to let a cheater back into their lives-trust me, once a cheater, always a cheater.

forget that low life, go out & meet a good bloke their is some out there somewhere

i exersize after a brake up
try to acomplish something you never did befor
it will get ur mind off of him

if he is not going to love you the way he should then let him go!
ever heard that song? well now you need to let it ,go you cant go back in time so dont worry about it. get you another man , she might be where he at but you where he wanna be!
- keyshia cole let it go ft. missy and lil kim

Men are butts, to put in plain and simple. You did not do anything.It is his fault for being an idiot and losing you! When mi BF cheated on me my girlfriends and i were watching tv and we found this great advice to women movie on love. it is called Two Can Play That Game. Same situation as you but she deals with it cool and collected. it is great!!! Grab some friends,Take notes, and pay attention! Good lucK!

You did absolutely nothing to deserve that sort of treatment. He is the one with the problem- not you. Trust me, you will find someone of a higher quality who respects and loves you- but first, make sure you love yourself. You do not need to stay in that sort of situation. Get out and do something wonderful for yourself- buy something pretty, take a friend out for coffee, get your hair done. Know that someone who deserves you will come along, and he will be worth waiting for.

Well you can take a long walk around the park. That always clears my mind, and just think of all the positive and don't think you life is over when it's not. Just relax that all you'll get over it.

kate,
You did nothing for your boyfriend to cheat on you-he is the one who cheated-it was his choice and NEVER is it the other partners fault.
My advice to you is dump him,I know you really love him but once a cheater always a cheater and no one deserves that kind of pain.
To keep your mind off things I suggest a few things-one keep your mind on your pain grab a pen and paper and start writing down all you are feeling-sometimes getting your feelings on paper will help clear your thoughts too. If that doesn't feel right to you grab a book and start reading let it take you away but remember your thoughts will still be there and need to be dealt with..........good luck

Men are not worth getting that upset over...Been there and done that. The only thing that will truly get your mind off of him is time, and lots of it...but, in the meantime, try concentrating on something that makes you happy. Invite some of your girlfriends over for a spa sleepover...give each other facials, manicures, pedicures, etc. Then, eat tons of chocolate ice cream and whatever else you want. Then, try to find something that you enjoy...take up a hobby. Just make sure it is something that involves other people. You don't want to be by yourself during this critical time period. You will think about him everyday for a while, but one night, while you're lying in bed ready to go to sleep, you'll realize he hasn't even crossed your mind that day, and you'll go to sleep, and then the next time it'll be a week, and you'll realize you haven't thought about him, and pretty soon you'll see him at Wal-Mart and it wont even phase you that he's with some other girl and a small child that suspiciously has his eyes...in fact, you'll realize how much better off you are without him and that he and that skank deserve each other...hmmm...sorry for all the personal experience stuff...but, trust me...you'll get there!

i suggest you go out with your friends or maybe go clubbing to get your mind off things but i warn you not to indulge yourself in food, drugs (antidepressants), or alcohol
you could also start reading a book or a famous novel
Maybe you should even start up a new hobby
You could also take out you anger and stress in exercise or yoga
Whatever it is you do i wish you well and good luck :-)

Maybe your boyfriend's not worth it forget about him
You probably did nothing unless you cheated on him first but any ways thats another story
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