Someone help! Anyone who is a survivor of sexaul abuse pls help?!
Question: I am 16 years old and when I was younger I was sexually abused by a female. Ive been having many issues lately and a lot of them in my lifetime. Whosever been through this situation please tell me how you got through it.
Answers: I am 16 years old and when I was younger I was sexually abused by a female. Ive been having many issues lately and a lot of them in my lifetime. Whosever been through this situation please tell me how you got through it.
i suffer PTSD from been abused.
it happend for 4 years and it toally destroyed me.
i had councelling which helped when i made the commitment that i should stick at it and let it help me.
i was 13 and it ruined my life until i got the help.
you can see your doctor who will do a referall to a psychisatrist and it really isnt as bad as you mgiht have herd or 1st thought.
it will help you work things through and give you coping stratagies.
i also found having friends round me helped me big style they didnt know what had happened but having someone there for me was the best thing ever.
the police can be informed and should be really but no one can force you to go. it has to be you who makes the decision.
you will probably be asked if you would like to make a statement and seriously consider it if you have not done yet. you could be saving someone else the pain you went through.
the main thing is to sort out your own pain first.
Take care
xx
I'm really not sure what you should do. I can only suggest you get professional help. Also,see if you can confide in someone you know. They might be able to help see you through the trauma. Hope you get over it...
i was raped when i was 16 by a friend i trusted and i now suffer from post traumatic stress disorder...the best thing to do is go see a psychiatrist...it's not as bad as you think it would be...it's helped me out a lot... that would be my advise...and don't try to handle it alone...find a friend or talk to someone...my e-mail is mlynnp33@yahoo.com...email me anytime...I'll be willing to talk day or night :) i hope you find peace
mine was a minor case but you should talk to a friend and get therapy
I wrote a letter to the abuser's. One was an uncle, I was 3, the other was my sister I was 11/12. Put all my anger confusion, hatred etc. in the letters. I then read them outloud, no one was around when I did this. Then I tore the letters up. dropped them in a metal coffee can, and burned them. That helped me a lot. But I was still troubled, I finally went and saw a councilor/therapist. One who specializes in sexual abuse. This helped more than anything. This person helped me to finally see and accept that I was in no way responsible or at fault for what took place. I was indeed the innocent party. I hope this helps you my young friend.
Oh sweetie, huge (((hugs))) to you. You need to know that you CAN get through this. First of all, please try to remember that it's NOT your fault. You didn't ask for this to happen to you. You are not dirty or bad or sick, or any of the things you feel right now. The person that did this to you is the sick one.
The most importnant thing to do, is to talk to someone. Believe me I know how hard taking that first step is. It's one thing to put it down in type to strangers on the internet, but it's so very different to have to talk about it face to face. But you have to.
Do you have a close family member or a good friend you can start with? If you can tell your parnets then that would be a good start. The person that did this to you broke the law and needs to be punished for it. If you have the courage to go to the police, then please do.
Make an appointment to go and see your GP. You can get started on the road to recovery then. You need to get some proper counselling from a qualified counsellor to help you get through this and to deal with what has happened.
You don't want to have this ruin the rest of your life. I was abused by someone from an early age until my mid teens. I then went on to live with an abusive man for most of my life. It took me along time to start to deal with what happened, and I only started to do it after I left him. As a result, I've ended up on anti-depressants. But I'm getting there. I'm surviving. You will too.
ok...so, ur 16 now....ur male. u were abused by a girl. now ur having issues....i think it depends on what kind problems ur having, whether or not u need professional help. maybe u just need someone close to u to talk to. r u close to ur mom? If it wasn't her who caused this, then maybe she can help u. I know that i would. i'm sorry this terrible thing happened to u...use it to make urself a stronger person.