Somebody please help with this situation?!
Question: I am 16 years old girl and when I was younger I was sexually abused by a female. Ive been having many issues lately and a lot of them in my lifetime. Whosever been through this situation please tell me how you got through it.
Answers: I am 16 years old girl and when I was younger I was sexually abused by a female. Ive been having many issues lately and a lot of them in my lifetime. Whosever been through this situation please tell me how you got through it.
therapy kinda helped me. but on the other hand it made things worse for my nightmares. reliving the past is an awful thing when i think back to m y sexual abuser.
you kinda just have to pick yourself up, move on with you life, put the past in the past, and want better for your future. being depressed about this isnt going to make your life better. talk about it, forgive your abuser in your mind....they are sick people. but if you dont forgive, you more than likely will be just like them. this is sick and sad at the same time. but the only way you can move on is to not swell on the past. really, i was abused for 9 years straight, thought my family knew, thought it was a punishment, (thats what i was told) thought my family wouldnt believe me if i told them. bc yet agian thats what i was told. you and your family need to know and say it over and over that this was not your fault, and life goes on......from now on....you choose your life....you make the desicions in your life....they can be good. or they can be bad....but over all you just have to move on in your mind....and just know that you wouldnt ever wish this on any little girl or any person whatsoever. know that its WRONG and that its SICK. you can get proffesional help to tell you this or use your family for moral support. but in the future you will find things like someone tryin to make you do what you dont want to do.....and you will rash out. (well i do) whether its going someone or whether its wearing something....i flip out bc its not something that i want to do....without realizing that i cant flip out over this.....so i still see a therapist. and there is nothing wrong with it. also.....dont want pitty from anyone. dont except it and dont look for it. pitty will only make you week.
im sooo sorry for you. but now its a new year. if you need help or want to talk....just email me. im an open book sweety.
Therapy was the only thing that got me through it. You need to talk to a counselor and let them help you through this. It sucks actually talking about it, especially to a stranger, but once you do you'll feel soooooooo much better. Go to your school counselor and ask them who you can speak with. They'll either give you a number to call or refer you to someone associated with the school. Been there, done that, put it off for years and never got over it until I went to therapy.
Please accept help and counselling from where ever you can. You need to find someone you can trust and talk about your feelings. You are strong to have made it this far. Remember life isn't always kind to us and things happen for a reason. What doesn't kill us makes us stronger. You sound like the sort of person who can turn this horrible event into a positive and use your strength and knowledge to help others.
You have the strenth inside you just have to use it.
Goodluck