Is there anyone else out there on the verge of suicide?!
Question: i've started doin things that i dont normally do and dont normally agree with. ive got major depression but i feel like im fallin down again, i keep forgettin meds an s*#t an no point tellin me to take em i already know that! im just not copin with my boyfriend leavin me an i dont want to put the whole my life in his hands or anythin, i just miss him. im not the sort of girl that gets invites from heaps of ppl so to have someone who means a lot leave well im sure im not the only one. anyone else feel like that an cant cope anymore?
Answers: i've started doin things that i dont normally do and dont normally agree with. ive got major depression but i feel like im fallin down again, i keep forgettin meds an s*#t an no point tellin me to take em i already know that! im just not copin with my boyfriend leavin me an i dont want to put the whole my life in his hands or anythin, i just miss him. im not the sort of girl that gets invites from heaps of ppl so to have someone who means a lot leave well im sure im not the only one. anyone else feel like that an cant cope anymore?
yeah i have been there. i know that that sounds wierd to hear because you cant imagine that anyone can posible be hearing as much as you are right now so you may not believe me. i just want you to do me a favor and re evaluate what you think is important to you. think hard about what really matters. look out your window find a wild animal and look at it. that little animal has all the answers because it realises how simple life really is. sometimes we just need to find that in ourself. we as a human race a have pushed so much meaning on everything that it causes tons of pressure and tons of dissapointment in our lives. i want you to realse that nothing i or anyone else says will take away your pain because it is not in our power. but if you change your prespective you might be able to fix this yourself.
please just listen to me time will fix this FOR SURE no if ands or buts in time you WILL get over this. if you want to speed up the process everytime you feel sad or that you cant get over it put on some music and excersie. you might not feel like it at first but it WILL make you feel better! eat CHOCOLATE and get SUN LITE all these things release endorphans and make you chear up. plus exersise make you look better and looking better well help you move on to a better man. get you a nice outfit do your hair up put on some new shoes. make yourself feel better about you. and when he comes crawling back tell him to **** off :)
much love and please dont take my advice litely because i my girlfriend cheated on me with my uncle and i sat in my room for 6 months crying. now she would die to have me back
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I've felt that way, but it changes if you stick around. If you don't, then you'll never find out how life can be good. Get counseling, get help, call a hotline, do whatever it takes, because life really does get better.
Oh, and put your meds in a place where you'll remember them. Or put a huge note on the mirror to remind you in the morning. They'll work too, if you stick with them.
ya, sometimes i do, with everything in my life. but i do something to make me happy, never suicide or hurting myself. please don't. there are tons of reasons not to. you mean alot to your family and friends. you have things ahead of you in a life. and guys shouldn't be a reason to everything else go. im here to talk if you need me.
i know how you feel. and your not the only one. this happends to every girl out there. i suggest you talk to ur ex if you still have feelings for him. and dont do anything that you'll end up regreting
this could be written by my teenage daughter...her bf moved and sadness insued...take this time to find out more about yourself...taking care of yourself will make a world of difference...you are very special to alot of ppl, im sure...Hugs!
I skipped my meds for a couple weeks off and on and I, too, am toying with the idea of suicide. I won't do it because it would hurt too many people, but sometimes I wish I wasn't so concerned with what it would do to everyone else.
Yours life is Gods life. God loves to express love, peace, joy and abundance through you. It is the of God and tendency of life.
I had been on that edge many times..my dad died when I was 6 and left me and my 2 sisters with a very abusive mom. I cannot tell you the times I wished she died instead of him. Or I would have died with him. My oldest sister was 15 when he died, she got married at 18 and got out. Next sister left home at 14 after 6 years of abuse. Left with a 21 year old guy and has messed her life up bad with men and drugs. I managed 10 years till I was 16 before I could get out..a big pothead and drinker by then..Ended up pregnant in a few weeks. Went through being beat by kids dad, he cheated on me but I loved him and stayed. Then another child came. He beat me so badly while I was pregnant I almost lost my son. So I finally left him. I have battled severe depression my whole life, but never went to doctor for it till 25. I got off drugs when my kids were small, but then I overate to cover my pain,,I was 380lbs at my heaviest. Around 34,,I finally stopped and listed to God. He was always there for me, but I ran from Him. I'm 43 now, my kids are grown, with kids of their own. Weight down to 160,,and mom is 77 and living with me because no one will take her in. God had done miracles in my life when all the pills for depression the doctors gave me failed. Pray and He will listen. The pain you feel and loneliness, think of it as a window. It's open now, but you can close it. It's a temporary thing, go out and do something to get your mind off of him. Volunteer around some folks who have it worse than you, like a homeless shelter. Seeing less fortunate always has a way of bringing your own good in life to mind. I hope this helps you.
I've been there. I used to be involved in a lot of things I wasn't too proud of, and I seriously considered killing myself. I'm a guy by the way, and I have been to the breaking point many times crying while I cuss God out for abandoning me. When I was a child I was abused because I reminded my mother too much of my father, and everday till I was 14 I was either physically, or emotionally, or mentally abused.
The only thing that kept me around was the thought of my family being in pain because I would do such a selfish thing. I don't even think you should take the meds. I think you should begin sitting down in a quiet place, and just listen. They say God's voice is silence, and I don't know if you are spiritual, religious, whatever, but if you can find some sort of inner peace, and strength, it makes everything external seem so meaningless. I'm not pushing my religion on you, that's your job to find, but you should really get to know yourself, and learn to value yourself. I think my turning point was this time I was going to court, and I was facing 5 years in jail. I ended up going my mother's church, and I talked to the minister for a few hours, just him and myself. At the end we prayed, and I felt whatever thing that was tricking me into believing God didn't care, leave. I then felt a calmness I had never felt before, and I actually heard a growling in the empty room, behind the minister and I. But that's another story.
There's this rule when you spin out in a car, you focus on where you want to go, not the wall. If you focus on the wall you hit it. If you begin focusing on the positives, no matter how small, you'll be much happier. Believe me, I had much bigger problems than not being popular, or someone leaving me, and in hindsight, nothing is worth giving my life for. You should value your life dearly. Look at all the people that don't even know you on this site, but support you.
I am here to be your shoulder to cry on. Please reconsider. There is so much to live for. Life is good. I know things look bad for you at the moment, but trust me life gets better.
Can you write down all the positive happy things that have happended in you life. Meditate on them. Thing positive. Find positive people.
You will find someone better than the person who left you.
I will pray for you that you find the inner strenght to overcome these feelings and depression.
Please try to thing on positive thoughts and memories.
And talk to someone, a close friend, a minster, a counselor someone anyone. Get it off your chest.
Be at peace. Life gets better.
It's the internet girl, find a pal out here to talk to.
get out and have some fun, go by yoursleve if you have too, hell call me I'll go with you, there is a whole world of people and things to do right out your front door, there is a light at the end of the tunnel
I felt that way before when my boyfriend and i broke up. I can't eat and always cry myself to sleep. My family was so worried then but could only be there for me. Time heals all wounds as they say, and it really did. Prayers and family help a lot. I'm sure you have friends too, try going out with them and do things you really enjoy doing.
To put it bluntly, things aren't necessarily going to get better. Suicide is a taboo in our culture and people say what they will to ensure life. Examples: the anti gay marriage, anti morning after pill, anti abortion, etc.... all of those deal with, to some degree, the concept of futurity and life. No one knows you but you. It isn't up to society and culture to tell you what you can and can't do with your own life. I get ups and downs in life, as does everyone. Basically, think of life like a casino: you can keep gaming... you go up, you get down, but where do you finish in the end? It's a gamble. You don't know thing will get worse, you don't know they'll get better. Like a casino, suicide is like cutting your losses/quitting while you're ahead. I've thought about it a lot and still contemplate it often. I'm not entirely sure why I haven't done it yet. I'm sure people will call me sick, screwed up or whatever... but I'm giving you my perspective. My perspective is self-empowerment, as you have complete control over your own life and what other say shouldn't affect yours. Keep in mind, the people offering you advice here can't really help you to change any circumstances in your life (work, family, relationships, etc) and thus can't really do anything useful. People will say that you will "miss out" on good things to come in life, but contrarily, think of the bad things to come in that same period of time. The important thing is that you act in a way that YOU feel is best.
A boyfriend, friend or spouse leaving is never easy so take a step back and realize that you are perfectly normal for not being in best of spirits. As everyhing else though, the feeling of hurt will pass. I recently went through a divorce so i really know what you are going through. The best things that helped me were working out and going to church. Stay busy with a hobby. Call up a friend or family member you may have neglected over the course of the relationship with your ex. To answer your final question..do I think i can not cope anymore? Absolutely not. You'd be amazed what a little faith in yourself and God can do.
Yes I also am on the verge of suicide and last night I took a mild overdose but I stopped before it became harmful and tonight I am not sure how strong I can be.
I guess I am not much help other than to say that you are not alone and I hope you get through this time ok.
ever since i satrted failing my exams, i kept falling back and my friends and my grilfriend all have jobs and careers ...
i am the only one who's stuck in a rut ...
feels like crap at times but then there's more to life ... like helping others and helping them find peace by giving a little bit of time to someone.
try talking to someone. Hey! try jeffdale up there or email me. There's always people who you can connect to ...
Good luck and Relax!
i suffer with depression myself and often think of killing myself but then i think of my family and how it would affect them and their lives when i get suicidal i think about how my life could be if i stuck around and what my future holds for me think positive and be strong your mr right is out there and if your ex turns out to be your mr right how will you ever know if you kill yourself if you love him set him free if he comes back he's yours and if he doesn't then it wasn't meant to be nobody is worth killing yourself over and it's their loss in the end not yours you are such a special person keep telling yourself that and think positive i did and i finally got married to my soul mate and best friend we love each other so deeply and unconditionally stick it out you will be glad you did trust me i know one thing i'm glad i didn't kill myself or i wouldn't be where i am today and have what i have i hope this makes you realise just how special life is and you too take care okay
Lost Soul, please call a suicide prevention hotline and seek some counselling immediately. Your depression is a reaction to losing your boyfriend and probably some other issues. Just hold on, I am sure you will find someone else. There was this girl in high school who killed herself due to a fight with her boyfriend. That was 8 years ago. Imagine all the things she has missed out on in the last 8 years, she would have enjoyed so many things. If only she had waited a few months to let her hurt and feelings from her boyfriend pass. She did something impulsive over something that in hindsight appears to be so small - a fight with her bf. Your bf is not worth taking your life over - he is not worth it. Please don't do it, you are not punishing him, you are punishing yourself and hurting your family forever. He will be upset but will get over it faster than you think. I know it is hard. The important thing is to keep yourself busy, do some volunteer work so you don't feel lonely if you are up for it, exercise. Please take care of yourself.