Am I A Loser Because I Don't Know How To Succeed?!
Question: Has anyone out there ever had trouble pushing themselves forward? I am scared of failure - in relationships, goals etc, and have been told I am just too serious.
Answers: Has anyone out there ever had trouble pushing themselves forward? I am scared of failure - in relationships, goals etc, and have been told I am just too serious.
yes i am the same exact way. i am trying to put myself out there more now though b/c the worse that can happen is failure or rejection. you can just pick yourself up and start over. you never know unless you try. and who knows, you might be missing out on some of the great things life has to offer because you are afraid. just try moving forward bit by bit until you gain the confidence. good luck :)
well do u think d same bout urself??
if yes,thn try 2 change urself...become better
if no,thn dnt wrry bout nething....dnt listen 2 others
I am scared of intimate relationships and sex, etc. and I'm scared of rejection if I ask someone out so I just steer clear of that kind of thing altogether. You aren't the only one out there who's a bit scared of failure. ^_^
Maybe you haven't tried hard enough, or it could be you are putting yourself down with low self esteem. If you think you are a failure, that is what your will become.
You just need to lighten up look heres a joke, A lady called Nancy Astor once said to Winston Churchill, "If I was your wife I'd poison your coffee!" He replied, "If I was your husband I'd drink it." Oh yes and about failure Winston also said: "Success is going from failure to failure without a loss of enthusiasm." So you see you just need to have courage.Cheers