I cant do it anymore!!!!!!!!?!
Question: I cant live like this anymore.I have fallen into a deep deep dark hole and i'm afraid that I will not get out of this darkness alive.I cannot bear to live like this anymore.There is no happiness in my life.It even hurts to smile.This sadness has become excruciating and unbearable.All I do is lay in bed all day.All my tears are gone.I cried them all away.I dont even bathe or brush my teeth some days.The only time I feel any relief from this misery is when I am asleep.Every night before I fall asleep I hope that I will wake up happy...but when I wake up all that I feel is this dark cloud over me.Prayer does not work anymore.What did I do to God to make him ignore me? I have given up asking him for his help.I dont want to talk to him anymore.I am only twenty eight years old and I feel that my life is just about over.I just cant take the pain anymore
Answers: I cant live like this anymore.I have fallen into a deep deep dark hole and i'm afraid that I will not get out of this darkness alive.I cannot bear to live like this anymore.There is no happiness in my life.It even hurts to smile.This sadness has become excruciating and unbearable.All I do is lay in bed all day.All my tears are gone.I cried them all away.I dont even bathe or brush my teeth some days.The only time I feel any relief from this misery is when I am asleep.Every night before I fall asleep I hope that I will wake up happy...but when I wake up all that I feel is this dark cloud over me.Prayer does not work anymore.What did I do to God to make him ignore me? I have given up asking him for his help.I dont want to talk to him anymore.I am only twenty eight years old and I feel that my life is just about over.I just cant take the pain anymore
Sometimes the timing might seem as slow as molasses in January in Fargo, but God hears all of our prayers and He answers all of them (sometimes, not the way we'd like).
Have faith and pray believing that things will get better.
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ummm...i think u need a hug and good therapy
You need to talk to a doctor now!
They can help you by referring you to a mental health professional and possibly prescribing anti-depressants.
seek a therapist. what has caused you such misery and pain. you need help, get it please.
I am going to be a bit harsh. What are you doing? It seems your not doing nothing. What do you like to do? Do you like to dance play sports what? You want to have friends. EVERY THING you need to be happy is out there. You just have to get up and get it. God is not going to make you happy just because. You have to work for it!
I use to feel like **** I had no friends I dress like **** no job never had a gf.
So you know what I did? I went to look for it and tada! I am happy.
Watch the movie the secret it will cheer you up.
i have been feeling hopless lately but coming out with my condition has helped me, explain why so us other users can help answer any of your questions. you have alot of support here.
You have to do just one thing and that is call a counselor and go in to talk about how you are feeling. The pain you are in emotionally can be relieved once you figure out what is causing it.
I've been where you are and my depression was a combination of things. I will suggest a few things you can try now; take some Vitamin D and calcium, you may have Seasonal Affective Disorder. Next, watch what you eat; nothing sugary or any alcohol. Eat healthy. Get some exercise, push yourself out the door for a walk everyday. And lastly, out loud, say "In the name of Jesus Christ, get behind me Satan". Keep saying that, you may be under attack.
Take care and get some help so you can feel better soon.
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It's better to light a candle then to sit in the darkness. You don't like to stay in bed all day? Go outside. You feel dirty? Take a bath. Your not happy? Change your situation. Get a job you'll like, even a job you'll hate if it gets you out of your hole. Trust me...life is like an hourglass. Sometime or another, you're going to hit bottom, and you have to be patient until someone comes along and turns it around. Just wait it out, and you'll be fine
Gia, you are a very beautiful person, and I have felt the same way, you really should talk to someone a family member or close friend or go to a dr. right away.If you are unable to goto the dr. You should try St. John's Wort, I take that everyday and it helps me a lot, if I don't take it I feel the same way that you do. If you need someone to talk to you can email me acslisa@yahoo.com.
It is a good sign that you are asking for help, but I think you need to talk to a professional.. Maybe they could prescribe something to you that can make you feel better. Another thing that could make you feel better is your could write your felling down in a journal or scream what you are feeling out loud. You look like a very pretty girl from your profile picture. Nothing is ever worth ending your life. Hang in there please!
Depression can hit at any age, even 28. See your Doctor, explain all of your symptoms so that s/he can make the right diagnosis, maybe do up some blood work, therapy referral or other things, like medications. You may have SDD, your may even have a something entirely different than either SDD or Depression.
See a medical professional asap!
Good Luck to you.
IT IS NOT OVER!!!!
dont stop believing and praying .God is there He is with you and was with you all along maybe you werent with Him
He has heard your crys and seen your fears He wants to take it away stop hoping that things will change start believin and thanking God because they will... and im praying for you.. and rebuke anything that is tryin to come against you right now in the Name of Jesus... the devil does not have a grip on any part of your life from this moment on.... no more depression no more pain it is Gone!!!
God is pulling you out of the darkness trust Him call on His name He is there!!! Give it all to Him lay it at His feet...your prayers have been working there is a time for everything God has not ignored you .... He will never give you anything you cant handle ... just lay it down ...He has something else for your life something better...God is rescueing you from the storm ...dont give up please dont give up its not worth it just call on His name....Gods going to restore that joy you once had and make it stronger then it ever was before... just keep trustin!!!
i went thew the same thing you are going thew, i know how you feel ,i felt like i was in ahole i went to the hospital i felt like my life was over , but wen i went there and went on the behavior flood and was put on a good antidession med i started to feel better again, it took like two days to get in to my system, and talking to other people that was going thew it helped to see that i wasn't the only one that had depression please go see someone are call your nearest hot line around you, are call the hospital and down feel bad we all needs some help now in than, good- luck, hey!!you can e-mail me to talk to each other, now go call someone that can get you help,,,please
You need care , love , passion and sympathy. Also someone who can get to root cause of your problem and give you a therapy. May be even medicine. Try to seek help of a counselor , He can help you initially. I sympathize with you , but unless I know more specific details of your problem , any further advice is not possible.
Its no joke to say that depression hurts. I can say that the words that you used to describe how you feel are the same words that I would have used at some times in my life. Some times I didnt even have a reason for feeling this way and it made no sence to me. I dont have any friends to talk to and family wont understand and Im afraid of critisim so I never really talked about it. I havent been that depressed in a long time though.
The only advice I can give you is to get out of the house. Go for a car ride and find a calming place where you can be alone to think and cry. By a lake or body of water. The sounds, smells, and breeze on your face can be refreshing
Also, you can make it a goal to go out of your way to look for something simple but nice to do for some one else. Such as, at a store elerdy people often ask me where things are, Like I work there or something. Intead of saying (well, I dont work here) and blow them off, I stop my shopping and help them look for what they need. It feels really nice and boosts your esteem when you do something nice for some one else. Expecially if you keep it like a secret treasure.
I hope this may help you. God hasnt given up on you, he answers prayers in his approperate time and in his way, it might not be convient for you or what your looking for but it will be there. He loves you. I care about you to and I hope you feel better soon.
Sweetheart,
That was just the first step. You asked for help.
You are experiencing depression, probably severe. Youu have to go to a psychiatrist. Therapy will help you and you may also need to take some kind of anti-depressant. Don't let that frighten you: A diabetic has to take insulin because their body doesn't make it; a depressed person has to take medicines which will increase the amount of, for instance, Serotonin, which is a very important chemical for you to be able to experience happiness. That's right, feelings are largely chemical.
You feel despair now but let me assure you, every bad feeling has an end if you get help. Your problems will not end immediately when you take a pill but your ability to deal with them will increase as your ability to function and feel good.
I remember when it was so bad that the world felt completely black. There was nothing there for me. I was so depressed that I could no longer even smell or taste, let alone feel. I was in trouble. I was lucky-- I found a program that helps depression of the kind that I had. I also found the right drug for me and I felt so much better. It did not solve my life but it helped me to have the strength to keep working on my recovery. There ARE reasons to live.
Please talk to a psychiatrist right away. It is possible that if you can't function at all or if you are suicidal, that they may want to briefly hospitalize you. They just want to help, and the two times it happened to me, it was so good to be able to sleep for the first 3-5 days knowing there was nothing I could do or had to do about the world. I was there for me and people understood that I needed help.
It is important for you to remember that people care about you and want to help you. If you don't have health insurance, there are clinics who will charge you 'on a sliding scale' which means they charge less if you have less money; sometimes even free. Call a doctor/ psychiatrist and ask for recommendations over the phone for a free clinic. If you have insurance, get thee to a doctor! Maybe it will be easier to have a friend call to make the appointment and to go with you the first time.
You can email me if you want to ask anything or talk. I totally understand where you are, but it's hard to put it all into words here. You know what? I care about you. get thee to a doctor.
Be well,
Natasha
i feel the same way and i am 14 i tried suicide but know i am taking medicine and getting somewhat better you should go to a theripist and get get anti-depressents
As a parent of a Bipolar child my best advise would be CALL 911 and get help NOW. Dont think tomorrow might be different, Tomorrow you might not have the strength to go on for real and then you are really out of options.
Things can improve but the first and most important step is getting help. It is out there...
I hope you check back in and let us all know you have gotten help and are feeling better. I at least will keep you in my thoughts and prayers.
Then don't do it anymore, when your at your wits end and stop doing it your way I will be there. God
Hi. I am also 28 and I feel the same way you do. I have been struggling like this for the past few months. There is no happiness in my life. And on top of it, i don't really enjoy talking to people. So, I just wanted to let you know, you are not the only one that feels this way. I've come to realize that this is maybe a stage that we are going through and it will eventually pass by. When u think about it, it has to! How much worse can it get? I realized that we can change the way we think and perhaps change our perspective on life. Instead of feeling like a victim, try to feel like you are a great person, you don't deserve to feel like this and stop feeling sorry for yourself. It isn't easy to do though, i know. But you need to be the one to take that initiative. You know, i read once in a book, that once you get to that low point in your life, you get fed up and start living a happy life! We have that ability! I really hope that helps. Take care hun.
Have you ever played with witchcraft........??? Be honest!!
it all stems from there
Since I played the Ouji board my life has never been the same personally
I'm sorry you feel so sad.: ( I've been there be for. I don't no you hole situation but I've felt similar to u. U just have to remember things can always get better. Take it one day out of time. Talk to some one . See a doctor about the way your feeling. Could be it s something hormonal , a chemical imbalance, or you may be severely depressed and could need medication . Whatever the case please talk to someone and get some help.Remember baby steps . One day out of time. Just get through the day and don't worry about tomorrow. Think positive. If you start thinking negative thoughts quickly change you thoughts to something positive ! And smile because your a BEAUTIFUL PERSON!!!!! : )
Go and get drunk.
its no over unless your over 23.