Have you ever been abandoned by people in your hour of need ? let down by them? !
Question: people who told you theyd be there for you no matter what.....but when you need them- they abandon you like frightened rabbits..
or for that matter, have you ever had a period in your life where youve been completley alone and lonely...lived alone? had to go it alone for whatever reason?
Answers: people who told you theyd be there for you no matter what.....but when you need them- they abandon you like frightened rabbits..
or for that matter, have you ever had a period in your life where youve been completley alone and lonely...lived alone? had to go it alone for whatever reason?
I'm so sorry you feel hurt by someone, in an abandoned way, but they probably are thinking about you. They could have a serious problem of their own right now and just can't burden you with it. If so, they know you don't need extra stress thinking about thier crisis. You just have to concentrate on cleaning up your own mess. For now, you'll have to be mature and patient.
If they told you they'd be there for you, they really meant it at the time. Those words do have deep meaning, so I can see why you feel crushed. I have my own mess I have to clean up, right now, that's why I can't sleep. And I wish I could help out a family member with something and it's stressing me out.
Yes, there have been times in my life when I felt alone, friends moved....husband travelled... But, I used that time to reorganize, re-evaluate and improve myself.
For those who can help you in your "hour of need", show them how thankful you are for the littlest thing. And forgive the others, because negative feelings will just eat at you.
You should join a church or support group. Until then rent a comedy, get enough sleep, eat right... Good luck!
Last year my depression was real bad.
I was having suicidal thoughts that seemed to be the best thing for me to do.
I was scared.
I needed somebody to talk to so I tried talking to my wife. I never told her how bad I was getting or about the suicidal thoughts.
I started by saying that my life sucked. I didn't start an argument or anything.
She responded by saying,"Why don't you just kill yourself?"
Not mean sounding, not joking, just like saying,"Why don't you go for a walk?"
I'm still with her, but it won't be for too long.
Yes, I have. I have learned to do with out them. Don't rely or depend on anyone. Don't ask them for anything. You will always, always be let down.
one thing u need to understand..everybody puts their own interests first..this is human nature..so dont b angry with ur loved ones..try to think from their point of view ,why didnt they help u??this will teach you an important lesson in life..there are limits to the support u can get."always especially during difficult times,you will have to defend fight it out yourself".this is true for everybody.everybody goes through isolated periods you should make this an oppurtunity to make yourself stronger
When I feel alone or someone let me down, I reach out to someone else. The trick is to have more people in our lives to reach out to.