Is someone stalking me or am I just paranoid?!


Question: I always see this one person following me all the time. I always here him when I walk to school. Its a very far walk. Should I just drive myself instead?


Answers: I always see this one person following me all the time. I always here him when I walk to school. Its a very far walk. Should I just drive myself instead?

There are alot of aspects to "stalking"...one of the best things to do is not let someone else determine if this real or imagined. Keep a specific log for starters. Dates spotted, location sighted, and diration of time they "tail" you. See if
the places your going are rationally places this other person could be going to (similar schedule). While it seems "powerless" to alter your way of doing things for a while...do it anyways. Drive if you can, take a little different route each day, DO NOT BE PREDICTABLE, whatever that
means you have to do. If the person is still ever present. Take your log of previous history and current changes and again taliling recordings to the authorities in your town. Stalking can be a very scary thing, and educate yourself on the topic. The book "How to stop a Stalker" is excellent. It is written by a retired police officer and will give you some tell tale markings of stalking behavior. Check your local library for that book. And for all its worth, be careful, and watch your back. If it is real, and assume it is at this point, you have to
be cautious. Still live your life, but live a bit bigger, have people around you and depending on you. That way someone is always expecting to "hear" from you or "see" you.
I know it sounds like a form of prison, but it is wise to not poo poo this yet. Hope it all works out for you.

Heart2Heart

You need to tell your parents about this immediately.

It sounds scary.
Do you have someone to walk to school with?
Maybe this person has to walk the same way you do every day as well. Do you carry a cell phone with you?
You can always act like you are talking on the phone while you are walking if you see him.
You could try driving to school for a few days.
Maybe if you leave a little earlier in the morning you will not see him. Best Wishes and be careful.

Talk your problem to your family member, they will find out whether you are genuin or not.

i really think first of all..you should go talk with a policeman and tell them what is going on. its really not safe to walk bye your self almost any where. this person could hurt you or even be more dangerous than that..now you ask the question and why dont you do something about it now, dont wait till later..call or go bye and talk..now before its too late...i dont know you but you need some relief from this worring..let me know how it goes...e mail me at bobbytjones1933@yahoo.com..now ok

If you see him at exactly the same time everyday, then maybe its part of his daily routine, maybe buying a newspaper. If you see him at different times, then he is following you.
Next time you realise he is following you, just stop walking, pretend to tie your shoelaces or clean your eyes with a tissue, so that he walks past you and is in front of you. If he stops when you stop, then he is stalking you.
The intentions of his stalking might not be bad, he might have a crush on you but can't bring himself to tell you, maybe he likes looking at your ***?





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