What would you say about this?!
Question: Are these people crazy or just screwed up?
They call me every name in the book behind my back and sometimes in front of me. The worst names you ever heard and for no good reason. Then they turn around and when im talking to them like a regular person does and discussing things say im immature and name call people... What would you call these two and where do they get off doing that and turning it around on me when they do it worse, instigate things and then act like they never did anything and blame me?
Answers: Are these people crazy or just screwed up?
They call me every name in the book behind my back and sometimes in front of me. The worst names you ever heard and for no good reason. Then they turn around and when im talking to them like a regular person does and discussing things say im immature and name call people... What would you call these two and where do they get off doing that and turning it around on me when they do it worse, instigate things and then act like they never did anything and blame me?
They know they are getting under your skin and are being very deliberate about it. If you must work with these people, then start to document their behaviour. It may never come to any use, but if there is documentation it will be your back up if push comes to shove.
If you don't have to work with these people then stay away from them. There is no logical reasoning behind what they are doing, so don't vex yourself looking for a reason. Another thing, they must view you as a formidable opponent - it's taking two of them to try to bring you down. Once you are able to walk away from it, they will start looking for someone else to bother and no one can stop them. The only thing that will stop them is when they try to screw over the wrong person.
Hi...both--I would get away from these people, friends or classmates, they are obviously having an affect on your mental health!
they just feel your fun to screw with. find some new friends and chill out. that way when these people bother you, you will have somebody to stick up for you. these people are poison and toxic to you. steer clear and happy trails
They don't sound like nice people. The ar mean and nasty and why are you talking to them. People like that are a waste of time and they get their kicks out of putting people down and they think they are better than others. Stay away from them they aren't worth your time and effort. Trying to understand them is not possible and its not worth it. There are a lot of nice people out there. You would be better off in getting to now them.
I would not call them friends. Why be around someone that is negative toward you. Find others that make you feel good about yourself.
If co-workers, tell the boss. If your kids. Ground them, cut their allowance and make them make their own bed. If they don't have an allowance, this might be a good reason for the bad talk, Pay up.
well they aim at you because you are an easy target... because you want to be validated by them... you care what they think...that is why they play games with you. The best advice I can give.. well look for other friends who will not put you down... these two are not worth it...even if they are popular..even if they know everybody you are paying a high price
good luck
Where I go we've a couple of attention seekers & if you can I'd move or try and change distance and turn my ear to other's. have you spock back every once in awhile? And set-up to talk to a superoir one I'm open for emails to listen
My answer is this....don't become too enmeshed with these individuals mentioned. They obviously are a negative influence and effect on your feelings about yourself. Honestly, people who exhibit this kind of behavior are essentially feeling pretty insecure within themselves, and that is counter productive to keep your own self esteem balanced.
ignore them but try to get away from them
neither, they are stupid people.
forget about them and try to stay away.
they want the attention, ignoring them is the best solution, just dont let it bother you.
good luck.