Im depressed, and I dont want to be. How can I become happier?!


Question: I recently asked a girl out and she said no, then she messaged me and she said we can still be friends. Then she blocked me from Instant messaging and wouldnt accept me as a myspace friend, because I made a new one. I dont know why but all of this is really making me sad, plus I have been trying to find a job but no one ever called me back. So lately I preety much just watch tv and stay home which drives me crazy. And all of my friends got into a huge fight and I got caught in the middle and know I preety much have no really close friends.


Answers: I recently asked a girl out and she said no, then she messaged me and she said we can still be friends. Then she blocked me from Instant messaging and wouldnt accept me as a myspace friend, because I made a new one. I dont know why but all of this is really making me sad, plus I have been trying to find a job but no one ever called me back. So lately I preety much just watch tv and stay home which drives me crazy. And all of my friends got into a huge fight and I got caught in the middle and know I preety much have no really close friends.

Don't be sad. Just move on. The girl that you asked out who said no is just a bump in the road.

Jobs are hard to find, especially a good one, hang in there and keep on trying. Usually, places will start hiring again after the holidays are over.

As for friends, they come and go.

Sounds like you have the winter blahs. At least you have Yahoo Answers and not just the t.v.

Maybe you could become involved in an activity that gets you out of the house even if it is just going for a walk. You might get a fresh outlook on things.

well get the antidpressant pills if you think its really really bad

but if youre depressed its mostly cause ure not trying
complaining about stuff isnt gonna help much
so go out there and have fun enjoy yourself
a few bad experiences always happen to everybody
who cares
have fun and move on

Okay this girl is no friend. Shes leading you on. I think when u ask someone out u have to prepared for a yes or no answer thst why u ask. Correct? Of cours eit is. So its okay and normal to feel down. But just bcuz u made a new friend on myspace was it another girl? That could be the reason. Any who, those 'friends' of yours don't seem like true friends if they were, you all would try to fix things out...give it a few days.
Are they all talking to eachother and leaving you out?? Have you tried to talk things over and explain? Also u have to call about the application you sent they don't call you, unless they decide to hire you or call u in for a second interview, u need to call them and say i am so and so and am calling about the app i sent in etc etc?? Good luck an dtry notto worry! :)

1) Do not take what this girl does personally. Just respect what she does. Do not feel sad simply someone does not like you, or love you. If the person is worthy of your love, she would not make you sad. You will meet someone nice in the future. Also, do not learn this girl's behavir. Do not do the same thing to other people in the future. because it is unkind. Do what you say. Say what you mean. You will gain the respect from people, from the person who is worthy of your love when you are ready someday.

2) Do not feel bad about the have not finding the job. Keep trying, you will find one.

3). Watching TV does not help your solve any problem. If you feel that you need friendship, go out to meet people, and make friend. What kind of fights that your friends get into. I think it is important to make friends with people who are nice, positive, kind, and loving because you are often influenced by people that we are associate with, so why not being influced by people who are kind, loving...

4) Seeking God, and pray to God, give all your burden to God, He will answer you....

Take care





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