I want my ex back, he is worth fighting for?!
Question: we split on the day before new years eve just passed. we'd been together for a few months and i dont entirely know why it couldn't work out, he wants to stay friends, and i dont want to lose him so i agreed to friends knowing that i will still want more from him. when i caught the train home he gave me a hug that was really tight and it seemed like he didnt want to let go. i told him i would miss him and he said he would miss me too which he hadn't said for a long time.
i just dont want to let him walk out of my life he was and is worth fighting for, im just really confused.
Answers: we split on the day before new years eve just passed. we'd been together for a few months and i dont entirely know why it couldn't work out, he wants to stay friends, and i dont want to lose him so i agreed to friends knowing that i will still want more from him. when i caught the train home he gave me a hug that was really tight and it seemed like he didnt want to let go. i told him i would miss him and he said he would miss me too which he hadn't said for a long time.
i just dont want to let him walk out of my life he was and is worth fighting for, im just really confused.
Don't worry it is hard for some men to find enough love in life Jealousy controls the moment but later he will come to beg soon enough. Keep his focus in your control is all. Don't be foolish about expecting a change. A long trip requires a spare on the highways of life.
Seems like there are still feelings there. Not love, maybe friendship
does he make you smile??
"never give up on things that make you smile"
no
Nope. Not worth it. He already said "friends" if you push him he won't even want that.
Sorry I have to write what you don't want to read.
Stay friends...maybe as he gets to know you he'll want more. Or maybe not. Back off or walk away completely. But most importantly do not take minor signs of affection as anything more than just friendly gestures.
i think a talk is necessary... in my case the reason my ex walked away was because there was someone else he had his eye on. so see if thats what it is. if he truely does love you and wants to remain friends, with the posibility of there being a future then give him time and he will come back... but if hes leaving you to go be with other women then hes not worth keeping around even as a friend.
you don't really elaborate on what caused the breakup and what he said or you said. Did he break up with you? (sound like it)
It does sound like there are feelings there have you spoken since then? I do understand how it is to not know why relationships didn't work out and it really does hurt. I can sit and say time will pass and your heart will heal but in fact honestly you may find later on that when you see that person out and about or talk on the phone..you'll miss him just like you do now and feel a part of your heart missing.
I have always fought for what makes me happy but if he doesn't fight for you too, then it isn't mean to be and sometimes it is better to be just friends and accept the fact that you should care for his true happiness, even if it isn't you that makes him happy.
Good luck hun. Hugs for you....try calling it has been a few days but don't sound desperate
Once you start taking them back you are on the slipper slope to a less meaningful relationship.
personally, i wouldn't fight for him. HE should fight for me. i mean, if he really loved me, why wouldn't he object to the breakup? why wouldn't he help make things better? well, that's just me... Well, in your case, if you really believe that he's worth fighting for, then why don't you give your relationship another try? (providing that he's still interested, of course)
walk away girl and don't even look back
for the rest of your life the facts will keep coming
each one more chilling than the last
what choice do you have?