I am afraid of getting old I'm only 18 but i feel like im havin a midlife cr!
Question: part of it is my boyfriend he wont let me dress the way i want or go out wit my girlfriends for a night , im afraid my life is passing me by
Answers: part of it is my boyfriend he wont let me dress the way i want or go out wit my girlfriends for a night , im afraid my life is passing me by
Ask yourself this: Does he actually care for you or just merely controlling you? He love you? Or not?
It's alright for him to be a little controlling. Anyway he he loves to control you so much, do the same thing right back at him. It's not wrong. Since he thinks that thats the way he care for you if he loves you, then tell him, show him, how it really feels to be under such control i doubt he feels good... then i think things will work out and he will tell you that he's sorry or wadever.
goodluck, love
I feel like I am having a midlifef crisis as well, at 22. However, this bf sounds REALLY controlling. Men like this start out controlling and end up hitting as time goes on. It's not easy but you're young and you need to find a new guy.
Sarah,
Your very young and your bf sounds like he is trying to control your life. You need to sit down and have a talk with him. It's your life and all couples need their own space. If he can't respect that then I would suggest finding someone who is willing to be part of your life, but not control it. Best of luck to you.
You have issues with your boyfriend - the only way you're going to progress is by talking to him, not us.
First - either don't let your bf control so much of your life or get rid of him. No man who truly loves his woman will be that controlling. He can give some suggestions and voice his opinion, but it shld ultimately be your decision and if he disagrees, then maybe you two weren't meant to be.
2nd, old is a relative term, but if you want to take charge of your life, then do it. Unless your friends are a bad influence on you (alcohol, drugs, promiscuity) you shld be hanging out with them as well as yr BF.
Hope you don't mind a grandfather adding his two cents. Drop your boyfriend. No woman should permit a boyfriend to dictate how she dresses or if she should hang out with her girlfriends. Even a husband does not own his wife. I will only comment on my wife's clothing if she invites me to do so.
That said, are his comments legit? Do you walk around with clothing that barely covers your parts and does he ask you to wear clothing that is more modest? Are your girlfriends negative influences on you and is he concerned with them for legitimate reasons? Do they overdo alcohol? drugs? Is he interested in settling down with you and wants to ascertain that you are on the same page?
you are way to young to not have a life. even married women do not have that stigma put on them. I will tell you one thing his demands will only get worse. You can not dress the way you wish to is he your boyfriend or your father. the only thing I can tell you is you will never be happy under some ones thumb.
maybe your too much for your bf to handle. you should tell him to back off or take a hike.
LEAVE THAT BOY
seriously, dont let men control you, it only gets worse over time