What is she thinking?!
Question: so my girlfriend broke up with me 10 weeks ago. for 4 weeks after, she would call me for an hour or two a night, and send me alot of sms's a day. said she was feeling closer to me. then she hooked up with a random guy, really regretted it afterwards, and told her parents what had happened (that would have been hard for her, she grew up in a really religious family). since then i've cut the contact, as i still love her dearly, and need to start moving on, since she is not good for me at the moment. we were both each others firsts, and she means the world to me still.
now...in the last two weeks, she has a new boyfriend. but she still has the flowers i gave her on our 6 month anniversary in her room (long dead, but her sister said she refused to throw them out), and a mutual friend of ours said she talks about me alot when they hang out together.
does all that mean anything? has she completely moved on? is there a chance still? its all pretty confusing....
Answers: so my girlfriend broke up with me 10 weeks ago. for 4 weeks after, she would call me for an hour or two a night, and send me alot of sms's a day. said she was feeling closer to me. then she hooked up with a random guy, really regretted it afterwards, and told her parents what had happened (that would have been hard for her, she grew up in a really religious family). since then i've cut the contact, as i still love her dearly, and need to start moving on, since she is not good for me at the moment. we were both each others firsts, and she means the world to me still.
now...in the last two weeks, she has a new boyfriend. but she still has the flowers i gave her on our 6 month anniversary in her room (long dead, but her sister said she refused to throw them out), and a mutual friend of ours said she talks about me alot when they hang out together.
does all that mean anything? has she completely moved on? is there a chance still? its all pretty confusing....
since u were eachothrs firsts shes probly missinng u ALOT!! the way i hear she talks about u she sounds like she still luvs u..hooking up wuz just a way of trying to get ovr u..i bet u ANYTHING it didnt work! her boyfriend now is probly a way ov tryin 2 forget u..i havnt seen my first since JUNE but i think about him evry day..i took about 6 mths to cut my crying down a couple nites a week..she REALLY misses u..pleeze talk 2 her:) VERY GOOD LUCK!
everyone remembers thier first and holds on to that memory. sounds liek she has been dating a few guys and is "trying the field" to see how different everyone is, she might come back to you or find someone she thinks is better for her. you never know, but if she isnt good for you at the moment then cutting off the contact is good. you can always talk to her again whenever you want. it is good that you still have feelings for her, she does for you it sounds like. so she hasnt moved on completly.
hope this helps and I wish the best for both of you.