Prom....too much?!
Question: on my 16th birthday no one could come cause they were busy, and all i wanted to do was go on a stupid camping trip, but i live in a small town, and go to a even smaller private school.
prom is in two years and ive never had a boyfriend, and i have to with a guy cause everyone is going and they wil all have dates, i cant go with just friends, i dont have any guy friends
i was thinking if i cant get skinny enough by that time so that guys will like me, i will either make sure i get badly hurt so that i could be in the hospital of that time, then i dont have to deal with that pain too, any suggestions as to how i can hurt myself so bad without perminant damage and make it look like an accident?
or i will find some agency and hire a guy to go with me, but i doubt there's something like that here? or do you know of some place like that?
any other suggestions?
thanx
Answers: on my 16th birthday no one could come cause they were busy, and all i wanted to do was go on a stupid camping trip, but i live in a small town, and go to a even smaller private school.
prom is in two years and ive never had a boyfriend, and i have to with a guy cause everyone is going and they wil all have dates, i cant go with just friends, i dont have any guy friends
i was thinking if i cant get skinny enough by that time so that guys will like me, i will either make sure i get badly hurt so that i could be in the hospital of that time, then i dont have to deal with that pain too, any suggestions as to how i can hurt myself so bad without perminant damage and make it look like an accident?
or i will find some agency and hire a guy to go with me, but i doubt there's something like that here? or do you know of some place like that?
any other suggestions?
thanx
Too much? Yes, WAY too much emphasis on an event that really doesn't matter in the first place. Listen, I'm all for people being in good shape, but just because you're heavier than some of your peers doesn't mean you won't be able to get a date. The problem here is that either you or your peers have managed to make you think that the prom (2 years from now I'd like to add) is some great moment in history. I went to 2 of them, and barely remember anything...all it was, was a time to get dressed up, and let's get real here, you can do that without a prom. Forget about the prom being such an important event, because it's really not, and focus more on the person you want to become without worrying about what kind of date you'll have. A lot can happen between now and 2 years...live for today kiddo!
I dont understand why so many people make a big deal about prom. To be honest, I went my junior year and was bored out of my skull, so i didn't even bother my senior year. If you really need to meet someone to go with, perhaps try a dating site? or a site like myspace?
and for future reference if a guy doesn't like you the way you are, he is not worth your time. i used to be overweight, and i didnt change for any guy, i did it for myself. :)
and im sorry to hear about your birthday.
if prom has you so worried maybe on prom night you should dress up and go do something even more fun with a friend or family member.