I need advice...any help??????? please?!
Question: ill try to make a very long story short..things went downhill since my gf of a couple years broke up with me..i had been with many girls before her & even tried to b with girls since her but things are horrible...i had planned to marry her( im 19yrs old) i knew she was the girl i wanted to b with without any doubts..after she broke up with me i tried to kill myself twice...ive tried spending time with family & friends...doing hobbies &everything yet nothing has helped..not even the smallest amount...i have been hospitalized multiple times...been on countless meds..and seen many psychiatrists & therapists...i also am on medical leave from college for other health probs i have...i cant go on much longer...i miss her so much & if i cant b with her( i know she doesnt want me back) i dont want to live..ive tried to hard to change these feelings yet im still at rock bottom...i just want to die..ive given it months &months since she broke up with me yet its still horrible...advice.????
Answers: ill try to make a very long story short..things went downhill since my gf of a couple years broke up with me..i had been with many girls before her & even tried to b with girls since her but things are horrible...i had planned to marry her( im 19yrs old) i knew she was the girl i wanted to b with without any doubts..after she broke up with me i tried to kill myself twice...ive tried spending time with family & friends...doing hobbies &everything yet nothing has helped..not even the smallest amount...i have been hospitalized multiple times...been on countless meds..and seen many psychiatrists & therapists...i also am on medical leave from college for other health probs i have...i cant go on much longer...i miss her so much & if i cant b with her( i know she doesnt want me back) i dont want to live..ive tried to hard to change these feelings yet im still at rock bottom...i just want to die..ive given it months &months since she broke up with me yet its still horrible...advice.????
you have a lot to live for. your only 19. you have many loves to come your way. each day that you live you are one step closer to surviving another day without her and it gets easier. one day when your in love with your chosen soulmate you will look back and say wow i'm so glad i made it threw those tough times because i am so happy with who God has chosen for me. you said that youve tried all meds and docs and stuff but nothing seems to work. I got a guareenteed solution to your problems. try Jesus! and you will never be the same again! don't knock him until youve tried him. Go for it! He's listening right now! Be blessed and live life abunduntly!
Mike, I am sorry that this has affected you so badly. Believe me, I have been in your shoes before and thought I couldn't go on. It takes time and patience, but in the long run, I will bet that you get someone else that was much better than her. I know that is hard to believe at this moment, but it does happen. Nobody is worth giving up your life for. Think of the grief your family would go through.